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    Crumbling marriage

    Your husband is a human being. He isn't a machine. You have to accept him as he is. Not for who you want him to be. Didn't you promise, "In good and bad, in sickness and in health." You're old school. I respect you for your values. It's fair to expect your spouse to love you as you love your...
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    Gaming / Boredom / Alternatives?

    Someone beat me to it. There you go. You can spend an eternity mastering the art of doing someone else mentally. You can communicate your dominance and test your mental endurance and build resilience through this amazing game. The oldest of board games. You will never get bored. Old school...
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    What are you listening to?

    Don't know if I posted this song already. The only Petra song I like and listen to. Haven't heard a lot of songs of theirs except this one. Used to hear it in the radio from back in the day
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    Good 90's songs.

    This is a song we listened to on our way home by school van. Brings back memories. One of my favourite songs from back in the day. Who let the dogs out, I'm blue, Bon Jovi - it's my life, Eminem, etc. Greener days. Lol
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    I need some serious advice

    You only need give what you possibly can. People who give, give from their surplus usually. Although you can be generous, remember that you belong to a family as far as financial expenses go. Your faith in God and fellowship in a Church should help you support the family. Give what you can. Not...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    @seoulsearch @Magenta @Eli1 and @MsMediator again and the wonderful Christian Chat family. I chat here from time to time but these are the few people I come across more often. Wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 2025. God bless you
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    Maybe such is my life. I have suffered and sacrificed a lot in my life for the sake of God. Not the most perfect guy here. I think I am allowed to be the way I am. At least you have a circle of friends. I have few friends. And I talk to maybe 1 or 2 of them about my life. I have been asked this...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    You were curious about my relationship with God. If I didn't have a relationship with him, I wouldn't be here. And I don't like anyone asking me that. I would never ask you that or anyone that. Communicating with God beyond a certain point is a personal choice. Freewill. And everyone does it...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    Seem to have my friend? Please go through the four fold caste system. Varnashrama Dharma a.k.a Manusmrithi. I know my society and my culture. More than half the people I know get married in their castes accordingly. Indians don't marry because they genuinely love each other. They strictly marry...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    Thank you @seoulsearch It means a lot. Yes. Parents play a role in our lives. I don't hold either of my parents responsible. They did their best. Both of them. Given their parental background. My father was raised by adoptive parents while he thought his real parents were his uncle and aunt...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    That is very true. A problem shared is a problem halved. I am very thankful for your kind words. I know that there are good people in this forum. After all, we love the same God. The God who knows us, hears us and calls us by name. One other thing I failed to mention. I have never seen my...
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    Do Parents and Married People Get Told By Others to "Get a Life"?

    Hey Seoulsearch, my friend. Hey Seoulsearch, Hope you are well. We often have spoken about such related topics in the forums. Yes. Still single. Often I have prayed to God for a good woman. A woman with a good heart. A woman with love. Living on your own is one thing. Living alone is...
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    MONEY?

    My friend. Life is more precious than money and material possessions. Knowledge of God is God's greatest gift to us. You can search the whole earth and the entire Universe and you will never find a friend like Jesus in anyone or anything. Many people who seemingly make it, who have everything...
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    Asking for help

    I'm sorry to hear that brother. Jesus is with you. He sees your suffering. He will rescue you and honour you. Don't give up your faith. Jesus loves you
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    Would Christ Vote?

    36 Jesus said, “My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jewish leaders. But now my kingdom is from another place.” 37 “You are a king, then!” said Pilate. Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. In fact, the reason I was born and came...
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    Purgatory, Catholic Bible vs Protestant Bible

    There are a lot of Non Christians who love Jesus. It's important people believe so they can be saved. “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6
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    Purgatory, Catholic Bible vs Protestant Bible

    Catholic Church is corrupt to the core and was back in the day. I don't want to accuse someone who claims Christ as their redeemer. Because when they do, there is a chance. Always. Though those things about the Catholic Church are true. Then again, take all religions for example, and you will...
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    Purgatory, Catholic Bible vs Protestant Bible

    Again isn't that how any religion works? Don't tell me that there are people who follow everything the religion says to the T. If people think they're that perfect, then there is something wrong with them. I'm not saying I'm perfect. But ultimately you being part of a Church, you follow the...