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  1. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I need so much help and just have no where to get it from. Everyone says God, but He doesn't talk to me. He just doesn't. I shouldn't have to solve a riddle or look for hidden clues or open my heart or third eye for whatever for God to tell me he is with me with WORDS. Or with a sign or...
  2. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    also, at this point I am just living for my friend. She and I have a lot of plans to do things and grow as people. If we stop being friends for some reason, which will probably happen because I will spend more time on her than myself, I'm just going to end it all.
  3. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Honestly everyone. How am I supposed to be friends and talk to someone who makes all these "wonderful" plans for me in secret? There is no garentee I will even have a good life. Like God won't talk to me? Honestly I feel like reading the Bible and going to Church manipulates me into thinking I...
  4. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I don't want to work 40 hours a week all my life and have no time for friends, hobbies, and housework. I just fundementally don't want that
  5. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Yeah but God hasn't told me what I'm meant to do with my life. I don't have any type of calling besides being a stay at home wife. So untill he does I have to figure out on my own what to do, and I'm aiming for the life of my personal dreams.
  6. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I don't know how to escape by myself. I wouldn't have any money if I did. I can wait 3 years and finish law school, but then I need a job, and a place to live, and if I go no contact with my mom she won't help me. That's why I always thought I needed to get married soon. I just want to leave
  7. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Ha, I don't want any kids, maybe I would adopt but I have health issues so I wouldn't want bio kids. Im scared Christan men my age (20-30) who wait till marriage would want kids, or want me to work. I can't be picky about anything else. He was perfect for my future life
  8. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I just feel like, when I read the bible I get nothing, so I stop reading it. Why should I have to read a book, be patient, and wait weeks for my friend to "reveal his plan". What kind of friend is that? I can text or call all my other friends when I have an emergency. Why can't I do that with him?
  9. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I feel like God doesn't talk to me though. I'm scared he isn't going to give me those dreams. I may be miserable like my mother, she is divorced, hates me, and hates her job, but she is Christain. I don't want that life. Many Christans live lives they don't like and I'm scared of that
  10. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Honestly, you are right. I just adored the life I was going to live. He bothered me and made me unhappy as a partner, I just was excited for that life and now it is gone
  11. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I just feel like those nightmares were the only chance at my dream. I'm scared that even though he is bad, I'll never find someone better
  12. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Just pray for me everyone!
  13. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    How can I every trust a man again, especially enough to have kids or stay at home, if I can be so easily discarded
  14. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    Yeah this man was kind of violent and not very Christan, but he was good to me, and was going to give me the life of my dreams. Now those dreams are gone. I don't think I could ever love again
  15. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I try but I never hear back
  16. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    That's very sweet but I'm just scared. I wanted to be a stay at home wife and now I may not be till much later in life. Like all my goals and dreams were going to be given to me by this man and he discarded me over night. How can I ever trust a man again?
  17. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I want Him to be my friend but how can I be friends with someone who doesn't talk to me. Who doesn't help me in the worst moments of my life
  18. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I just feel like God has been ignoring me. Every time I ask to talk he doesn't. And today my life was turned upside down. Where is he? I fell my heart dying and where is he?
  19. SadGotDumped

    Just got dumped

    I'm very sad. I just got dumped by the second man I thought was the love of my life. I don't know if I can fall in love again. Also he was going to take me out of my abusive family situation. Yesterday he was promising to be with me forever and today he helps me. Honestly, I just need some help...