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  1. BenFTW

    Black Lives Matter Comes for "White Jesus"

    I’m not going to lie, I was on the verge of reporting him recently. I’ve been seeing his posts lately and he has even been offering his advice to people seeking help with his warped perspective on God, fornication, and a lack of redemption. Calling women whores and anyone who has committed the...
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    Black Lives Matter Comes for "White Jesus"

    🧐 “I’m not political.” 🤔 Who are you listening to? lol 😅 ❤️ I don’t like that you’re being ganged up on Blue, but they aren’t wrong about what they are saying. You are expressing certain talking points that would label you as liberal and left leaning especially when you started saying you...
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    Black Lives Matter Comes for "White Jesus"

    Stay away I can’t.... Stay away Ben, stay away. Don’t comment. Shhh 🤫🤭🤐 Some of the things people are saying.... Shhh 🤫🤭🤐 The battle in my mind to comment on some of the things people are saying but practicing restraint because the climate we find ourselves in people are so high tension...
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    "God Told ME to Marry You!" "Oh Yeah? Well God Told ME to Run!!!"

    I don’t often mark a post with a disagreement but I strongly disagree with your line of reasoning here. You’re relieved that such a lack of belief, in God choosing a spouse, puts the emphasis on personal responsibility. I would argue, personal responsibility comes into play when you trust who...
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    Let's Talk About Sin

    The incorruptible seed? When we think about all that Christ has done for us, our sins of scarlet as white as snow, and God remembering our sins no more, do you think that this truth is about justification? Imputed righteousness? Or, are you saying that we walk a sinless walk (as sinless...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    No, it isn’t another occasion to rain on anyone’s parade. I forgot who said it, but it goes like this. “Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.” A lot of people squander the hope of others based in their misfortunes. They tell people tales of woe, only to discourage them...
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    Let's Talk About Sin

    My dude, when are you going to hold the book signing? 😅 📖 🖊 Thats a long post but I read most it, skimmed parts, and got the gist of what you were saying. I think, with everything you said, Christians should realize they no longer have a proclivity to sin. They don’t have to sin, as if it...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    What a unique idea for a funeral. A worship service. Ironically, I wonder if this would help people through the grieving process? In the midst of their grief, praising God for His goodness, casting their cares upon the Lord.
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    What a heartfelt consideration, in the scenario of you passing first. You want her to be happy. Does this wishing of your spouse living life include with it her finding someone else to live life with? I suppose it wouldn’t matter to you because you wouldn’t be around to see it. I’m pretty sure...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    I’m not sure which reaction I want to give this response. 😅 I clicked one, canceled it, put another, and canceled it. Lol 🤔 So the goal, for you, is to grow old, but if he somehow is an annoying old fellow, you choose the die first option. Annoyance equals “take me now Lord.” Lol 😳
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    When I read the Disney part I definitely found it quirky at first. I then considered that while you think some will consider it ridiculous, I realized that was your way of coping. It should rather be looked at with compassion. Thanks for sharing Seoulsearch. 🙂
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    I figured it’s something people ponder. I mean, haven’t you thought of one day finding a spouse and growing old together? I don’t think it’s as out there as you’re making it seem. 🙃 Could it be the difference between a person believing in “the one” and another person just finding a person they...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    You can still answer the question, can’t you? 😄 It’s never crossed your mind for when you do find your spouse, growing old together? Desiring to age gracefully? Being healthy in old age? Living a long life together? And obviously and eventually, passing away. You don’t have a preference in...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    Yes, from the movie Bicentennial Man.
  15. BenFTW

    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    Thread title does say “Spouse to be.” 🙂 Just what you desire in the future with your spouse and life.
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    LOL (laughing about my childhood recollection)! I saw this movie as a kid and apparently my memory of it is slightly off (just rewatched the scene, will show below). Yes, they died together side by side, but she died because she asked her nurse to unplug her. 👀 lol Regardless, side by side in...
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    Church Girls! What’s your secret!?

    Hey Seoulsearch! I’m glad my story inspired you to upgrade your “dental kit.” Lol Yeah, I definitely approve of water picking. 💯 Also using an electric tooth brush makes your teeth feel really smooth. The head I use on mine has these little rubber flaps and the bristles. Feels like you went...
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    Do you want to outlive your spouse (to be), die before, or die after?

    This is sort of a melancholic topic, but I think one that crosses our minds. There is such a beauty in love and one day we will all die. There are certain things to consider, maybe selfish, in the timing of our passing. For me, when it comes to my future spouse and I, and our family, I would...
  19. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    Wow, thank you for having me reread Psalm 117. In my searching for the significance of 117 (having seen it keep coming up) I did see this Psalm, read it, and kept looking for another verse related to the number. I actually like both verses. I don’t think I gave Psalm 117 an adequate taking in...
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    Church Girls! What’s your secret!?

    Absolutely! I didn’t always take good care of my teeth, to such a degree that I actually had gingivitis and plaque (tar tar as well) build up as a kid. Then I started using an electric tooth brush (Oral B, the kind that rotate or spin in circles as if it’s polishing your teeth), water picking...