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  1. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    All I wanted was a discussion and instead people have taken offense when none was intended. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Yes, I would encourage people to wait, but after this thread and certain people’s comments, I realize it is up to the individual and their faith. Some people genuinely aren’t comfortable with...
  2. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    If you feel that I articulated one way was good and the other was bad, instead of trying to defame me, why don’t you instead argue for why you think both options are good or expressing if one is better than the other? I have said, many times now, my preference is waiting upon the Lord. We can...
  3. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    Everything I put in bold here is a bold faced lie, intentional or not on your part. I don’t know where everyone is getting this idea of “the spiritual option.” Take the time to reread the original post. Yes, it does put waiting upon the Lord in a good light because it is a good practice. It...
  4. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    Haha, thanks and yeah that’s me. Today I decided to record some vocals for the song because at first I was just winging it and making up some lyrics for the post and after I was like, “That actually sounds pretty good.” Lol I wanted to see how it sounded vocally and what the melody would be.
  5. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    And you insult me. 😒 Why are people attacking the intent of my post by assuming they know what’s in my heart and think I am trying to judge (and accuse) people as being unspiritual? I am asking from a place of sincerity, heartfelt. If my question is ignorant, please expose my ignorance...
  6. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    I think I am taking this too seriously @shineyourlight @zeroturbulence @MegMarch Does this have your approval? Lol @seoulsearch Would you defend and protect this guy? 🥺 @Desdichado Is this marketable? 😂 @Magenta I am sorry, I don’t own magenta colored clothing.
  7. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    See she’s already setting up boundaries (or the lack thereof) as our manager. 🤪
  8. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    Yes, “the right price.” Fine, we will let you go on tour with us and, the biggest thing of all, I will share my Reese’s with you.
  9. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    I feel like @seoulsearch needs to be involved somehow. Definitely the bouncer, she would use brains though. lol She would be like Sherlock fighting, so calculated.
  10. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    Oh man... and I thought @shineyourlight was going to be the diva. The jury isn’t out on that one yet. 😄 @zeroturbulence Any demands? Lololol
  11. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    As long as you bring me my chilled, thawed from frozen, Reese’s you’ll be good. 😆 Can we have demands? 😮😁 Lol
  12. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    @shineyourlight Who else do we need to hire or recruit? Lol
  13. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    @MegMarch is like, “What has happened to my thread?” Meg... you are officially our manager. 💰 💵 @Magenta And you are our designer. Magenta colored everything will make us stand out from every other band known to man.
  14. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    “Sound of Mine” by ShineyourlightBenFTWZeroturbulenceNEWBREED The song would be about singing a new song to the Lord. Sound of mine Here’s your sign My hearts on Fire, all the time We will, worship You Worship You To the ends of the Earth We will worship You. (This is sounding like We Will...
  15. BenFTW

    Judgemental Christians

    You missed the good one. 😄
  16. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    I suppose this can be applicable to the person dating and the person waiting. You see, both are equipped and prepared, but ultimately you have to take the plunge (when you meet the person) and offer them, well, yourself (which includes all of your parabolic talents). This can be a fear for...
  17. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    Funny enough, the Bible speaks about being equally yoked and would you believe I pray for my future wife and her spiritual growth? I pray that she is in God’s presence, in His word, and encountering His goodness. That she knows His voice. It’s good to be on the same page, when it comes to things...
  18. BenFTW

    The truth about tongues: a DIVISIVE force in Christianity today

    So because tongues causes division and division is not from God, tongues are not from God? What do you say about the Protestant reformation? Is that split, that division, not of God? What about the debate of Law versus Grace? Sometimes truth divides. God wants us in unity, yes. Unfortunately...
  19. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    Also, I am open to discussion because I wanted to know WHY people are dating as opposed to waiting. Regardless of my bias towards waiting, that doesn’t mean you cannot express your reasoning for dating. The one person who came close to why (or offering a reason), was cinder in expressing they...
  20. BenFTW

    To those of you dating...

    All of that to say, as I already confessed, I am for waiting upon the Lord. 😆 Also, here is the big question for you: What if dating wasn’t God’s plan for you to find the person you are to be with and instead you are taking matters into your own hands? Again, this is up to an individual person...