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I swear you were inside my mind a few weeks ago when I was reading Genesis again. I'm perhaps a bit more cynical than you are though. I've always had a negative interpretation of this story, in particular Abraham. I can't fault a man for worrying about his life, but to be willing to essentially...

Very interesting study. I'll have to try to find it so I can dive deeper. The "Not a Blank Slate" part, would this indicate that there is more objectivity than subjectivity as to what is beautiful? It would dispel cultural bias and perceptions to what beauty is. Very intriguing.

If I had to take a position, I would say it's more beneficial than it is disadvantageous. However, from a male perspective, I can give anecdotal evidence of people assuming you are a d-bag for simply presenting yourself in an otherwise professional manner (polo and dress pants). I've asked...

Makes me think of Val Kilmer who died yesterday. :cry:

I'll have to watch this movie. Sounds interesting! Your post sort of reminded me of Norma Jean Baker's story (Marilyn Monroe). Classic beauty with a short and tragic life.

Oof, I'm sorry for the experiences you shared but appreciative your input. While I may not feel the exact same way as you do about redheads, I sort of understand. The difference is that I find that they are either really attractive or really not. Rarely have I see a "mid" redhead. I remember...

You're absolutely right. Great point. If we look through a political lens, I think it has played a factor in how people vote/support. I'm not saying it's entirely why people vote for a certain candidate, but I think it's certainly a boost. Think of people like Gavin Newsom for example, all I...

Not offended at all sister. I appreciate your feedback. I actually roll my eyes when people bring up "privilege", but this is one privilege I think actually exists. I wanted to hear Christian thoughts on this as I, unfortunately, live in a secular world and hear their thoughts on topics more...

I love how your first thought is utility when it comes to some of the objective markers of beauty. I think it speaks to your character (positively of course). Thanks for your input.

I agree that there is a lot of subjectivity to beauty, but I believe people (in particular one sex) tends to ignore the objective markers of beauty. I don't know if this is conscious or subconscious for people to deny objective markers, it's just difficult to believe anyone could think it's...

"Yes, but there are exceptions to every rule!" 💀💀

If pretty privilege exists, and I think that it does, should the prescriptions be to the pretty people or to those that give the privilege to them (society)? What prescriptions are there, if any?

I need to note, the demonstrations were of mostly secular women who leaned feminist (which is largely the representation of the average American woman). That's a bit of context that is relevant. From my anecdotal experience, theistic women (even non-Christian) tend to be a bit more based.

On a side note, I've seen demonstration after demonstration that women consistently think they are about 3 points higher than most people would objectively rate them (strictly superficially). Men are more likely to give a realistic answer. One could argue it's good to gas yourself up, but...

"Pretty privilege" refers to the social advantages and preferential treatment that individuals receive as a result of being perceived as physically attractive. Do you think this exists? If so, does it exist for both sexes? Are there any negative/disadvantages to being "pretty"?

Don't date Mormons! Jk-kinda

If you don't have much dating experience, I could see the utility on going on a blind date. Are the odds he/she will be your future marriage partner? Probably not, but it gives you experience that could prove to be beneficial one day. Even if the person is nothing like you are looking for, you...

I use to be active on reddit, now I mostly use it for ratings/reviews. Lots of garbage like that on social media in general these days.

I think they are referencing more meaningful details about yourself.... Like if you prefer chunky or smooth peanut butter or if you think pineapple belongs on pizza.

I believe the sexual revolution is largely responsible for this dynamic today. Men and women scratched off many virtues (chastity/purity for example) and marriage-minded relationships in exchange for promiscuity. That instant hit of dopamine makes us slaves. The only remedy is abiding with Jesus...