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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    Would you mind elaborating on your relationship a little bit? Like, how did they react to you being Christian, why did you decide to do it, etc.? If you’re uncomfortable with it then you definitely don’t have to, I’m just curious to know. And yeah that’s kind of what I’m afraid of, them mostly...
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    Well yeah again that’s why this is hard because everything else about them is completely fine with me. I don’t like trying to change people in that sense.
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    Don’t take this to be rude, but, yeah, that was kind of the point of this thread. I’m dealing with those thoughts all swirling in my head now and wondering what to do about it.
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    Yeah, I totally hear everything that you’re saying, especially that “seed of doubt” thing. Honestly I don’t expect them to change just because that’s an unfair thing to place on them.
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    They did just mention again that they are truly interested in finding faith eventually. Seems risky to date them before that happens though, as much as I want to start dating them like now. I myself haven’t been to church in forever because of Covid and such, so I don’t really feel like I can...
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    I’ll reply to everything individually when I can, but I want to ask: do you think it would have been better if I had just kept my feelings to myself and continued repressing/suppressing them? I mean I realize that it’s futile to wonder “what would have happened,” but still. Originally I was...
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    Admitted Feelings=Lost Salvation

    It’s honestly a long and complicated story that I’m hurting about too much to type out so I’m going to keep it brief. I met someone that had/has a lot of pain and issues in their life so naturally I encouraged them to reach out to God. Skip a little while later, I tell them I’d only date a...
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    Your thoughts on friendships with non-Christians?

    Honestly I think that this is probably a good approach; could be wrong though. However, you know that what she’s doing is clearly wrong and you want no part of it. I mean temptation can happen to anyone, of course, but it doesn’t really sound like you’re going to be tempted to join her anytime...
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    Valuing animals more than people?

    We also see this at work when we see people doing stuff like doing everything they can to spread awareness about saving the elephants, but not saying a thing about the horribly impoverished people in Africa.
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    Your thoughts on friendships with non-Christians?

    I have wondered about this same subject many times and it’s interesting to see all the different perspectives and experiences on this subject. I hope this thread stays active for a while.
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    @Lion222 you are KILLING IT with these posts...keep up the good work; it’s really inspiring.
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Oh man I’ve been there too. I guess the painful reminder of missing out on something in the past can help push us towards making sure we don’t miss another opportunity in the future!!
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Dude this entire thing here is like ON POINT👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Like DANG this is perfect
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    This is good advice.
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    This is SUCH a neat story!!! Thanks for the share!!!
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Thank you so very much for your reply. I think sometimes I get so caught up in my own head and worries about whether I’m hearing God’s voice or not that I just forget to take a step back and look at something with a more logical lense. I also agree with your advice on being careful with what we...
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Ooookay this is a really long and kind of nonsensical post so let me see if I can sum it up in a TL;DR: I’m trying to figure out if God is asking me to get rid of something in my life. After asking Him to speak through His Word, the passages Job 33:13—30 and Job 36:9—12 stood out to me. Do these...
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Okay WOW. That is like...I mean it sounds trite but that is literally so cool. It’s amazing to see the things we can accomplish when God is in control. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story; I’m wowed!!!
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    Oh well thank you!! I didn’t think that anyone kept tabs on stuff like that.😅 I ended up...

    Oh well thank you!! I didn’t think that anyone kept tabs on stuff like that.😅 I ended up getting my predicament solved without needing to post here, but some of their posts I saw here did help me a lot. Thanks for all that you guys do! 😁
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    Are coincidences signs from God?

    Oh goodness, thank you so much!! Looks like you guys really do care about each of your forum members!!!