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  1. Snackersmom

    For Singles Looking to Get Married, How are You Preparing Yourselves?

    So you are saying that when yall disagree, Thea is NEVER right? Like, not even a little bit? It's not healthy for one person to *ALWAYS* win, because nobody is *ALWAYS* right.
  2. Snackersmom

    Constant set backs, constant failure... I'm tired...

    Oh OK. I've been angry at God for the way my life was going too, it even happened when I was about your age. We could be twins lol 😆 I will tell you though, being angry at God was the worst 4 years of my life, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. It kinda paralyzed me and kept me from taking...
  3. Snackersmom

    For Singles Looking to Get Married, How are You Preparing Yourselves?

    When you say that "it works", what do you mean by that? Like, what is the intended result of staring down your wife during a disagreement? 🤔
  4. Snackersmom

    How Does One Determine Who is Over Another in the Lord?

    It has always struck me as a desperate need to feel superior, probably due to low self-esteem. Sad but common. I'm usually able to accomplish what God wants while staying within the bounds of man-made restrictions, so as long as that's happening I mostly just put up with it.
  5. Snackersmom

    How Does One Determine Who is Over Another in the Lord?

    Oh OK, yes it's a common belief in my area too but not usually blatantly stated. If anyone states it blatantly I just ask them what do I do if 2 different men order me to do 2 different things, how do I submit to both of them. That usually gets em all flustered lol 😆. But yes it's annoying...
  6. Snackersmom

    How Does One Determine Who is Over Another in the Lord?

    Heya miss Suze, I know some churches adhere to the power structure of all males having authority over all females, but I do not think it is a Biblically sound doctrine. There are many verses about spiritual qualifications for authority in church, and Y chromosomes alone do not cut it. 1...
  7. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    No worries 😎. I totally get that it's annoying but I also get why women do it. It's almost a reflex. I've had to fight the urge a few times myself. For me I think it comes from loyalty to my guy and also not wanting the guy who approaches to feel led on. Because some guys assume you're hitting...
  8. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    That's not really how I joke, but ok 😎
  9. Snackersmom

    For Singles Looking to Get Married, How are You Preparing Yourselves?

    I don't think most of us are offended. I thought it was obvious you were referencing that other thread, but I guess for newcomers and those who don't log in as often it could be confusing 🤓
  10. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    I wasn't talking about anyone in particular 😎
  11. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    Wait up, who exactly am I supposed to be recommending movies to? 🤔
  12. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    Oh OK. Since you mentioned several times that it annoys you (particularly if the woman is not attractive), I assumed it is a current annoyance. But apparently it no longer bothers you, my bad!
  13. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    Hi Beamrider, I totally get that it's annoying when people think you're interested when you aren't, but sometimes it can be really hard to tell what a person's intentions are. Men these days tend to be very apprehensive about approaching women (understandably), so when a guy does step out of...
  14. Snackersmom

    Constant set backs, constant failure... I'm tired...

    I think you mean you want an apology from your parents? That's understandable. I'm sorry you had to teach yourself how to drive. I'm guessing you had to teach yourself a lot of other things too. It's not supposed to be like that. Sounds like you got dealt a rough hand. 😕 But hey now, you're...
  15. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    Great goodness woman, yall move fast! Great to hear about another cc match-up 👍 The nosy person in me wants to take a guess who the lucky gentleman is, but I respect yalls privacy 🙏
  16. Snackersmom

    Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

    Congrats! 🥳😎🥳🥳🥳 Do we get to hear yalls how we met story?
  17. Snackersmom

    Trusting in God vs Trusting what God does

    Hi Delvianna, the second story I shared actually WAS about God showing up for me personally, but maybe I did not express that very well. It did make the situation a lot more bearable, that's for sure 👍 I've had countless dreams that gave me comfort or direction in specific things, I know a lot...
  18. Snackersmom

    Tales From the Singles Forum -- What Are Your Best/Most Prominent Stories/Memories From Your Time Here as a Single?

    Ah yes, I forgot about Stand-up. There were probably others as well. Sinless perfection is actually a fairly common ideal in BDF. The proponents all seem to have an extremely narrow-minded definition of what sin actually is. Stan was very comfortable with bearing false witness, but other sins...
  19. Snackersmom

    Tales From the Singles Forum -- What Are Your Best/Most Prominent Stories/Memories From Your Time Here as a Single?

    I'm pretty sure StantheMan, DallasMan, Jaywalker, and JimmyTheLock were all the same person, all former members. For a current account my best guess would be ScooterJackson but I haven't seen enough of his posts to have a strong opinion.
  20. Snackersmom

    Trusting in God vs Trusting what God does

    That's a little tricky because the Intel was fairly personal, but I'll see what I can do: I had a friend, a new Christian who was going through a lot. One morning I woke up thinking about them and couldn't get them off my mind. So I figured maybe they needed prayer. After a few minutes of...