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Thank you but the events of the last 20-odd years have shaped me in many ways. I definitely lacked compassion at 20 and had to learn it the hard way I suppose 😆. No worries about sharing, I get that situations are complicated and if other people are involved that makes it 10x harder. Because...

Hi Delvianna, I have been on both the giving and receiving end of such messages a few times. They really hit. Whenever my faith feels a little tenuous I always go back to those times to remind myself how much He loves and knows and cares ❤

Heya Big Silver, thanks for your kind reply! Admittedly it did take me a while to become content with my single state, I was actually really mad at God about it for several years. I made peace with Him over it when I was about 27, and thats when I truly started living. I wouldn't wish those...

Hi big silver, welcome back! I wish it was under better circumstances 😕. I feel that others have already answered well. But I did want to share something from personal experience. I find that often my perception of the future is a lot darker than it turns out to be. Like, if I had been told as...

I have found this method to be somewhat effective. 😎

Thank you so much for sharing your story. You sound like the literal definition of a proverbs 31 woman, minus the respect and appreciation she received from her husband 😔. I'm so sorry you were treated that way, you deserved so much better! My mother was a homemaker and I completely agree that...

I hope this doesn't sound nosy, but you have given us glimpses of your story and I find it very intriguing. Would you be willing to share your perspective on the trad wife trend? If not I completely understand! I just think it's a very misunderstood topic.

I don't remember where I heard the pigeon analogy but yeah, seemed fitting 😂 I have compassion for him as well; these mindsets don't develop on their own. I've had run-ins with other Christian stoics and they were all emotionally and/or physically abused as kids. Most were held to a...

No worries, might not even be a concern and ultimately he's responsible for himself. It definitely seems like poor comprehension is part of the issue but anyone so allergic to logic and comfortable with lying will say pretty much anything and think they are proving their point lol. It's like...

Hi @RodColeman , of course what you do with your time is up to you and I totally get the pull of it, lovette is a fascinating little case study lol 😆. But the exchange I quoted above has me wondering if talking with him further is actually leading him into sin. Like, he clearly and...

I answered that in the very post you quoted, and in multiple posts before that. But it appears you are unable to comprehend it. I had distant hopes for an actual conversation but I'm tapping out now. No point talking into a void. Hope you find healing some day 🙏

@Lovette Just to clarify, I am not angry at you but I am very frustrated by your behavior. If you were to stop and look around and listen, you would realize that most people here agree with some of what you are saying. We are tired of being treated like second-class citizens. We are...

I said that I have dated a "small handful of men". Two officially and a third unofficially because we never went on an actual date, but he was a family friend and I did spend time getting to know him. Anyway...... I've had two dating partners in my entire life, and I have been an adult for over...

Hi Lovette, if you are asking what my reason was for posting in this thread, it was because you asked yet another member some bizarre question about dropping their pants. We had previously asked you to stop doing that because it's super cringey and could really upset a new member. So I got...

Yeah I see what you are referring to 😕. I had to work late last night and I'm afraid the window might have closed, but here's hoping......

I'm not sure why you interpreted a differing viewpoint as aggression, but ok... that is typical of people with your disorder. If I was not sensitive enough to your fragile emotional state then I apologize for that. But next time be upfront about what is actually bothering you, ok?

Why do you think that is not understandable to me? We are all well aware of your singleness and nobody is asking you to change it or telling you to go to bars 🙄. Why would you even consider that? 🤔

I mean, all I said was that I had dated a few godly men and none them asked me for sex, you responded by telling me to keep that to myself, nobody asked me to say that, don't call them Godly, stop ridiculing the #metoo movement, don't "throw that" at you....... sounds to me like you were pretty...

If you seriously think that all you criticize is dating and dating apps then you need to take a look through your posts, you might be surprised 😂 And no, I don't take anything you say personally or seriously, no worries there. I'm really just trying to teach you some basic human decency at this...

I've never met your mother, but I know what you posted about her in a different thread and the behavior you described in her is the same behavior you have been modeling on this site: I'm not judging you for what you said above; far from it. If anything it helps me have compassion for you and...