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    Courtship?

    In courting the wedding day is (at least the time frame) is important to set. It makes it a bit more serious rather than just telling to the lady "we will see". As of what to do to court someone concretely. I would say more or less the same as simply dating but just with clear intention to...
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    Courtship?

    From the goal of the relationship. If the goal is just to be together, then it is casual. If the goal is to get married and start the family, then it is a serious relationship. This does not imply that you stick together until the wedding but you aim at it. A lot of people don't have those...
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    Courtship?

    I guess it is a serious relationship that has a clear goal: to get married and start a family. Dating is just a new form of a casual relationship, kind of more casual version from common law marriage.
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    Greetings from Finland

    I am grateful for your kind words!
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    Single men & churches

    Too old for what? Starting a family? I don't think so. You just need to find a lady that is open to age gaps. I have heard those ladies can live in Asia, for instance, in Phillippines (it is actually very religious country by the way).
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    looking for a wife

    Young man, your prime years are ahead of you. Women become more mature when they grow older. It is better to marry when you are a bit more mature also. Now it is just time to focus on daily grind. Build up your finances (pay off debts if you have, start investing, buy a home if you haven't...
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    Single men & churches

    It really depends on church/denomination. If you attend in those older churches, there are opportunities for men as well. Even if you are single, in fact the Orthodox church even have monks and monasteries for men who choose the monastic way of living. Protestant churches should encourage men...
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    Hello

    The country or the State?
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    Greetings from Finland

    Hello, I am Jarmo from Finland - an entrepreneur (40 years old). A single ready to mingle (prefertably European, caucasian, lady). I am spiritual, I would not call myself Christian but I hold judeo-christian values dear to me. Meaning, family, faith in one God. I pray daily, but I study pretty...