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  1. Misty77

    Just for curisity's sake

    Who here would identify as either egalitarian or feminist (or both)?
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    CNN to Uncover Dangerous Gothard Teachings

    This was posted by Recovering Grace this afternoon: "One of our RG founding team members, Dr. John Cornish, is going to be live on CNN around 10:15 EST tonight. We'd encourage you to watch as John shares about the troublesome teachings of Bill Gothard, particularly in the area of sexual abuse...
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    Sin Minimizing

    Listen carefully to the wording of an apology; the words that a person uses to describe their sin reflect what they really think about it. A truly repentant person understands the depravity of their actions, and that understanding leads to confession. Here are some examples from scripture...
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    When It Hits Close to Home

    Sometimes going through trauma teaches you to recognize danger hiding in plain sight. But when you warn others, you're met with resistance or worse, blame. Maybe it's not really their fault that they simply can't comprehend the evil you know is out there, the evil you experienced. And it's...
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    A Pastor’s Apology To The Single Community

    by John Pavlovitz This is a message to all those who are single or who have spent any years in the Church as a single person. As a pastor who has served in local church ministry for the past 17 years, I wanted to apologize to you on behalf of so many of us who minister and who too often have...
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    Christianese that just needs to stop

    Phrases that I can no longer handle hearing/reading: "In God's eyes" Like He's some sort of creature incapable of comprehending human language or thought. Define words as what they mean. I've seen too many warped definitions "validated" this...
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    The Sermon That I Never Heard

    "[E]ncourage me and the women in our church to be strong like this. We are no threat. We will not try to usurp authority. Men are not the enemy. They do not have to be afraid to build us up into strong women." On Deborah, and Jael, and Being a Strong Godly Woman
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    Jesus Jukes

    Here's some food for thought that I am "borrowing" from Morgan Guyton (Associate Pastor, Burke United Methodist Church), published with Huffington Post. I would like to draw special attention to number 7. The phrase "Jesus juke" was originally coined by Jon Acuff in a 2010 post on his blog...
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    Compassion versus Condemnation

    As believers, we have been saved by the Grace of God. Any thoughts on why we are still so quick to condemn rather than to show compassion?
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    An Honest Discussion of Feminism

    “Authentic feminism requires all doors to be unlocked, encouraging women to make choices that best suit them. Leftists can have nothing to do with that, working instead to demonize choices women might make that involve family,” To fix feminism, . . . young women need to be shown the...
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    If men got the Titus 2 Treatment…

    The Crisis of Biblical Masculinity in the Church By Roberta Heard Ellis It has come to my attention that we are facing a crisis of biblical masculinity in the Church today. An increasing number of men are neglecting the roles God clearly outlined for them in Scripture (Genesis 3:19, 1...
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    By our love

    We need to be a little careful here. I know I'm guilty of this, too; but we need to look at Jesus' example. The only time he was angry, argumentative, and sarcastic was when He was dealing with the pious religious leaders of the day. When he was with the lost and unbelieving people, He showed...
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    I'm Not Worthless

    But this is what women learn from legalism. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PnI3IaxPa-M#action=share
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    Masks off, Men

    You are our greatest allies. http://purposefullyscarred.com/2013/12/12/masks-off-jeremy-loveday-on-the-culture-of-violence/
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    Abuse and the Chruch

    "We had failed to clearly describe what headship is not, and what submission is not. We came to the realization that abuse – a pattern of coercive control employing any one or more of emotional, verbal, sexual, spiritual, physical, financial and social mistreatment of the other spouse – is...
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    Submission with a purpose

    Can you spot the problems in this video? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OkUPc2NLrM
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    Rules of Biblical Interpretation

    For those who have no formal theological training (and those of us who need some refreshers!), the list below will help us make sure that our understanding of scripture is sound and accurate. That doesn't mean that we will always come to the same conclusions, but it should aid in defining what...
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    Ways to Support a Survivor of Abuse

    From Purposefully Scarred. This is written with the survivor's significant other in mind, but it has important information for all of us, too. 1. Listen. Listen. Listen. Try not to interrupt or overreact with your own thoughts and feelings. You may need to process your own reactions with...
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    Solo parenting in Texas

    I'm so blessed to be mom to an 11-year-old boy who shares my love of the Lord and the Doctor. I work for a Christian nonprofit dedicated to protecting first amendment rights. I've enjoyed three years since my marital emancipation and love respectful theological debate. Thank you for welcoming me...