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  1. Bananalegs

    31 and still single/ unmarried

    I think one of the biggest things I’ve gotten from posting this thread and reading all the responses is that yeah, I’m obviously not alone, but also that it’s “not on my time, it’s in God’s time”. So many times I have tried to do things on my own and wanted things to happen when I wanted them to...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    The link definitely went through, and it’s something that I’m looking forward to watching when I get home from work today. Also I would love to share my story/ testimony with you regarding my confirmations, I tried to message you but I’m having problems with trying to start a conversation. I...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Haha 😆, I don’t mind reading your novels at all, your lucky I enjoy reading hehe 😝 And I just have to say one thing, I find it unbelievably incredible that you mentioned finding a church that you really enjoy that’s in Tulsa Oklahoma, because as I mentioned earlier in this thread, I have...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Yes! I was just thinking how the last thing I wanna do is just settle, but that also means that I just need to be patient, yet alert and attentive to whomever God has me cross paths with someday down the line!
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Thank you for that brother! That’s some really true and sound advice. The last thing I wanna do is just settle, and end up with someone that’s just not right for me.
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Thank you so much for sharing that! One of the things that’s hard for me is opening myself up more often than not with people, which makes it hard for me to foster true relationships with people, it usually makes me feel vulnerable, and when I feel vulnerable I feel weak. But being open, true...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Yes that is so true! We all gotta due our part too. You can’t just plant a seed and expect it to grow on its own without watering it daily.
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    You know, I can definitely relate to that; letting go of all control and handing it over to God and to just leave it in his hands. I know and understand that we all have our part to play as well, but I’m recently saved, will be one year this April, so I’ve always been used to having total...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    You know I almost feel a bit foolish posting this, but at the same time I’ve gotten so much great advice and heard so many great testimonies as well. But this Sunday in church, my pastor gave a great sermon, as he normally does, but this past Sundays was particularly moving and powerful for me...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Hey thank you so much for sending me that link. 😊😊
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    That’s not what I meant at all. If how I worded it made it sound that way then I apologize but not at all what I was talking about. Yes all my friends are married but I don’t feel the need to get married myself just because they are or for any other reason like what you mentioned. Sorry 🤷🏽‍♂️
  12. Bananalegs

    “I’m the arrow, your my bow. Shoot me forth and I will go”

    “I’m the arrow, your my bow. Shoot me forth and I will go”
  13. Bananalegs

    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Great advice Jam and Lynx. Right now I just started a new job and start this Monday. I eventually want to save up to almost $10,000 to go to a Bible College come this September for three years, it’s a little about $3000 a year. I want to become a missionary and a minister, which are my two main...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Thank you all for the sound advice, and the funny jokes and puns hehe 😜. I fully believe that I will be someday so I just need to be patient, keep my mind focused on God and keep my eyes on prize, and not settle for just anyone. I’ll get there 😊
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    Feeling Blessed today

    Feeling Blessed today
  16. Bananalegs

    31 and still single/ unmarried

    That’s true Mel, I’ve just been single for a long time and I’m ready to share my life with someone special. And Cinder you make a great point, I’ve just been saved this past year in April and I’ve been too focused on learning and growing in my faith right now. All my ex’s from my past, well...
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    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Hey there everyone, I hope this doesn’t come off sounding depressing, but I’m 31 and still single and have been wondering if there’s something wrong with that? I mean I know I’m not a bad guy at all, yeah I’ve made mistakes in the past, but we all have, no one is perfect. I have a lot of friends...
  18. Bananalegs

    Hello

    Thank you all for being so warm and welcoming, I’ve been feeling so lonely and out of place lately. I feel better now 😁
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    Hello

    My buddy, the one who I got the bananalegs name from, used to have a couple of bearded dragons. Lizards were his favorite.
  20. Bananalegs

    Hello

    Goodnight Isny. And I would have loved to have seen your old pet spider Calibob