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    Trying to save my marriage

    Tinkerbell, I am putting my faith in God. God tells us that he detests divorce. And I know my kids! This would tear them apart. After losing their grandfather, I don't know that they could handle this. Through my prayers, I know that I will come out on the other side of this. I know that...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    I don't know if he realizes the full weight of divorce, but I know I do. I am the product of divorced parents, and my mom was the second marriage for my dad. Because I am the product of divorced parents, when we were talking engagement, I told my husband that I wanted to know that divorce...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    To the OP - it is really good that you want to deal with your failings, and that you haven't simply thrown back like for like accusations etc. Being humble is a wonderful place to start, and I hope and pray that you get the help you need to be able to cope with daily life and walk in the spirit...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    Honestly cannot tell you if menopause is happening. Sometimes I think it is, and other times, not so much. I am pretty sure my husband is going through a mid-life crisis. There have been mood changes, wardrobe changes, and not sleeping well, and other things. I just want someone to talk...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    I agree that it is wrong to see a person as less for seeking help. It doesn't help that I already feel judged by my pastor and his family.
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    Trying to save my marriage

    I am not saying that I want to go to a heathen. I want a therapist, a Christian Therapist, who will base their help, advice, or whatever else they do on the Bible. Why do I think that a therapist is better than my pastor? In this case, my pastor has a lot on his plate with foster kids...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    I don't know if the Love Dare thing will work or not. I know it is Biblically based. It has me looking at myself and the problems I have as well has how to better handle situations. It has me reflecting on things he has said recently or in the past on how I can be a better wife and mother. I...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    Thank you for the prayers and encouragement. I know that is what I needed right now, besides getting some of my other issues out. Finding ways to leave the past in the past, past hurts, outside of marriage, and not bring them into marriage. I don't know how his is dabbling with friends...
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    Trying to save my marriage

    Take him out "dressed to kill" when at his parents house, his dad is laying in a hospital bed waiting for God to call him home? I get your picture, but I see that as bad timing.
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    Trying to save my marriage

    It is possible his is going through a mid-life crisis. I have seen some other things that are strange for him, but I will not mention on here out of respect and risk of embarrasing him. My trouble is the trusted female that will not judge, or good therapist, and Christian is a must!
  11. M

    Trying to save my marriage

    Thank you for the encouragement!
  12. M

    Trying to save my marriage

    Hi guys! On Friday evening, I asked my husband what he was thinking about. I thought he would say something about his dad who is sitting in a bed in hospice care. Instead he told me that he wasn't sure he loved me anymore, and wasn't sure he wanted to stay married. I thought that between my...