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So, ladies, many of you seem to wonder why men may seem so reluctant to ask women out. This subject has been covered quite a bit in the forums, i know. But while watching the chats tonight, something dawned on me. I've seen the same thing happen over and over and it just hit me tonight how common that women do this particular thing.. You complain about being asked out.
Almost every time i've hear women bring this subject up, its mostly filled with negative comments and attitudes and stories about being asked out. Many times to one degree or another the guy is put down. His approach is put down. And not to mention, being told no to top it off.
Consider the mixed signals that attitude sends to men. One minute you're complaining your single, the next you have a list of stories complaining about being asked out. No guy wants to put himself out there, just to be shot down and end up as forum fodder.
And before anyone complains, i know this is not all women. And i know some guys really do or say some dumb things. This is about a generalization of this attitude that i have witnessed for years.
Almost every time i've hear women bring this subject up, its mostly filled with negative comments and attitudes and stories about being asked out. Many times to one degree or another the guy is put down. His approach is put down. And not to mention, being told no to top it off.
Consider the mixed signals that attitude sends to men. One minute you're complaining your single, the next you have a list of stories complaining about being asked out. No guy wants to put himself out there, just to be shot down and end up as forum fodder.
And before anyone complains, i know this is not all women. And i know some guys really do or say some dumb things. This is about a generalization of this attitude that i have witnessed for years.