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nessalee

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It is Christmas, a very special and important day. My fiance decided to watch the movie the Hangover with a friend tonight. I havn't seen it but I have heard bad stuff about the movie. I feel very uneasy, and I question my future with him. I dont want to spend future holidays like this. I'm confused. Advice would be helpful.
 
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greatkraw

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talk to him


I was once watching a movie with christian friends - every time there was an offensive bit I thought, good all the bad bits are past - NO there were plenty more

walk out the first time you get offended

he will get that message

pray about your future
 
resurrection33

resurrection33

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You’re not married, YET. Maybe you should rethink whether or not you want to GET married. I haven’t seen the movie, though.
 
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HeatherJones

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Never marry a man that you cant respect and that cant or wont take the role as head of the household. My husband when we got married said he was a christian and went to church so I thought that was all that was needed. Now I know better and will teach my kids to make sure their soon to be spouses have a PERSONAL relationship with Christ. I wasn't much better than my husband at that point in my life but please make sure and see the evedance not just take his word for it. Does he spend time in the word? Do he seek Gods guidance about everything? What kind of father do you want for your kids? Dont think you can change him, only God can if he lets Him. If you want to stay with him and pray he changes thats fine, just dont marry him until you do. Christians need to start taking the til death part more seriously and letting God have a hand in picking our perfect mates, not just lust, lonliness, or satan. I dont mean to be harsh with you, more harsh at myself. Just really dont want people to make the mistakes I did.

God Bless and Ill be praying for you.
Heather
 
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imTastik

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Personally I really don't think you should take this to heart. I've seen the hangover and yeah there's some bad bits but there's also some really funny bits in it too. I'm a Christian, I haven't allowed it to affect my life at all, my cousin hasn't allowed it to affect his life. I've also seen Bruno and the dance flick this year, the language isn't good at all but I really don't think you should worry about it at all. Unless he starts to act differently say like he drinks loads, starts to gamble...I think you just need to relax and trust him. Like I said if he starts to change then you need to talk to him and see what's going on :)
 
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