Men, pigs? Wait a minute here. Not all of us are bad. Let me tell you about my history. My first girlfriend only dated me to get closer to my brother. Worst thing about it: he knew and so did all of our "mutual" friends. The second girlfriend that I spent three years with, asked to marry, one of the main reasons I joined the Corps called it all off a week before I deployed....Over the phone. After I flew her down to NC for just a day. Then this last one, I took time away from my family, time from leave drove from western Illinois to Virginia, spent A LOT OF MONEY and I sat in a hotel room alone for two days. So don't call us all pigs. Some of us are good. We can get the worse treatment also.
With your ex. Well, sometimes people are just dumb. Maybe he needed a change, things just happen sometimes.