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Here's the situation. There is a dear, wonderful couple at my church who have 1 son & 1 daughter. I think very highly of both of them and their kids as well. Last Sunday the mom stood up during announcement time and somewhat teary eyed announced that she and her husband we going to be grandparents. The whole congregation applauded. She seemed very excited, as any of us would be except, the parents to be are her son, 19 years old his girl friend. Afterwards I gave them both a hug, because I love this family so much, but I am not understanding their excitement. I asked Lindell (husband) when's the wedding, he said he didn't know, right now they are focusing on a job, car, etc. I saw my friend's Facebook post about it and replied with a "you'll make a great grandma. When's the wedding, can I help?" Haven't heard back.
I know this is a Christian site so I'm thinking I'll get responses that agree with me and offer appropriate things to say, but I'm also not so sure that'll be the case.
What do you all think here? Isn't this wrong? Both my kids know I would be very upset if this was our case and they know why. I thought other church members would think the same but again, apparently not, unless they were just being polite. So what would you do or say? Appreciate the wisdom of anyone who cares to respond.
I know this is a Christian site so I'm thinking I'll get responses that agree with me and offer appropriate things to say, but I'm also not so sure that'll be the case.
What do you all think here? Isn't this wrong? Both my kids know I would be very upset if this was our case and they know why. I thought other church members would think the same but again, apparently not, unless they were just being polite. So what would you do or say? Appreciate the wisdom of anyone who cares to respond.