Being judgemental - virginity

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I've seen that people are very judge mental when looking for a partner. Most of the times they want them to be virgin. There are many women or men but they fell into temptation. Why being so judge-mental? We shouldn't focus so much if they are virgin or not, we should focus on the way they are and how close they are to God and their believes upon The Lord.

I am not saying people should have the freedom to do that because it is a sin but what about the people who failed and feel so repented and sometimes don't even accept themselves just because of what society or Christians may think.

Being repented from that sin it's very horrible because you end up with so many scars and you end up thinking that nobody will ever accept you and that you have to get used to the idea of being alone. It's a cruel thing to judge someone for her/his past because that persons has walked through a rough journey.

What's your opinion?
 

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I agree. The Lord forgives all and we as humans must try to follow in God's footsteps and forgive those as he would.
 
i saw your other post,hey God will bring someone...you're only 22...
otherwise i would have definitely asked you after Praying a lot..

so don't think all are stone hearted..:)
God Bless:)

And no Christianity is not about rejecting sinners,but loving sinners who are ready to come to Perfect Repentance in Jesus...:)

Jesus Loved sinners so that they can be Saved and Jesus hated their sins...
 
Nel3 sorry for what your feeling. Ask forgiveness as I'm sure you have. You forgive yourself don't think you have finished that one. Remember you also have to forgive the people you feel are so judgmental. The more mature the life of the christian is the more forgiving they should be. Don't please don't expect babes to say and do all big strong grown up christian things. Forgiveness is a tough one. Again I say forgive yourself.

Would love to talk more as much as you need you should be able to get ahold of this old been around failed more then I can say back on track son of God.stick around I've read posts from some very connected mature Christians.
 
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