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I attended a bible study for the first time tonight. I'm really shy and reserved when it comes to meeting new people. I'm also a 23 year old woman who just recently got out of the sex trade and has chosen to follow Jesus... So I feel like everyone is better then me or at least thinks they are and are judging me. Anyways. Bible study... At a new persons house with people I don't know. The study part went ok... I was pretty quiet, too scared and unsure to comment but secretly hoping they would ask me something or break the ice somehow. Didn't happen that way though... What really got me upset was the prayer request portion of the meeting. I thought this would be a good opportunity to share a struggle.. But even though I had the intention of piping up, other people were talking so long about their problems (one girl in particular, in great detail and quite repetitly I might add) that I, the new comer..., wasn't even asked or given the slightest opertunity to share. I was so hurt I felt so excluded and unwelcome. I was getting quite annoyed. Then they started singing. Almost as soon as the music started, tears started streaming out of my eyes... I tried to make myself sing through the tears, barely succeeding. Tried to praise God and focus on him. But I just kept tearing and choking. I felt like I was on the outside even at a place where people are supposed to care. I felt so out of place. I feel like I learned a couple things though... Just because people are Christians dosent mean they are perfect, or always considerate. I think I need to stick to sunday worship and steer clear of all afterward fellowship until I find some people I can relate too. Most people would just judge a young person such as I, covered in tattoos and youthfull modern style. Sorry I'm not fitting the image... I believe all God sees is Jesus anyhow... And my intentions. Hoping for some input... Feedback... Answers... Can anyone relate?