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Tinker

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Hi. I have a boyfriend that is really starting to get on my nerves. He claims that I'm the trouble in his life. I have tried and tried to spend tie with him and he comes up with some excuse of why he don't want to do anything with me. I need some advice on what to do. It's driving me crazy. Please somebody help me
 
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BlackDove

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Unfortunately, when people aren't really willing to sit down and talk to work things out, that's a pretty direct sign that things are spiraling downward. It sounds to me like your boyfriend probably wants to break up, but doesn't have the guts to do it, especially if he's saying things like "You're the trouble in my life." Sorry to hear you're going through such trouble : /
 
Sharp

Sharp

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May 5, 2009
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Sounds like a dork.

Solution = get rid of him.
 
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sportygirl

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Yeah I would say, thats not a good sign. Especially if you guys used to hangout alot. This is what happened between me and my ex, we hung out all the time, if he was with me it didnt matter but than he was "too tired" to hangout even though he did nothing but play video games and i was the one that had a job adn still was making time. And it turned out he just didnt have the courage to break it off, nor the motivation.
 
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beta7

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hi Tinker,
you're still young so dont give yourself any gray hairs over this guy. still lots of fish in the sea out there and im sure there's someone willing to love and appreciate you. take care
 
Kadath

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The healthy thing to do is to realize that it is not your fault, and that it is not his fault. Some people just aren't compatible. Sometimes it takes a while to figure that out.
 
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3232

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God choses someone for you, and i belive that he will tell you when you find him. Your like the princess and God is the macical godmther that grants your wishes...maybe this guy just isnt ur prince charming
 
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asamanthinketh

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well, so i've heard men like to go into their caves, I read it in a book and heard it from a a pastor.

I had a friend who would often confuse me by making plans with me and then breaking them or saying he would call and then never doing it.

And at times some of us want to reach out when this happens. But you can't always do something.

So, if you are strong and know him well, and have support such as a family, friends, a church or both of you are really serious about making a life together then maybe it could work.

I don't know the details of the situation.

But this is just what my basic knowledge tells me.

And if you are young, make sure that no emotional, to mental turmoil makes you suffer or age needlessly OK
 
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