Boys- Frustrate Me

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sportygirl

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It's true, I am apparnetly in capable of telling if a guy is intersted in me or not. I feel like all the guys in my school can't make up their minds...and its quite frustrating. I know I got lucky wiht my ex, in that he was so forward about his feelings, but hes my EX so that does me no good now haha.

Outside of my rant I do have question, I have a crush on a guy I recently met, and we talk alot and have slowly started to become friends, and sometimes I think he likes me, sometimes I think no were just friends. How can i subtly determine the difference, and how can i invite him to go do something with me (and friends) without being awkward?

Oh and if anyone has frustrating boy or girl stories for that matter, please share!
 
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distinctiveministry

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You want a guy to by forward and open instead of subtle, and yet you have a crush on this guy and have not shared your feelings with him? That's a double standard. My advice is to nicely tell him what you think of him in a way that doesn't need deciphering. Something like, "You know, Mike, you are very easy to respect, and that is a quality I like a lot in a guy. I'm so glad we are getting to know each other better." It's tasteful, it's fairly obvious, but he can respond in a way that answers your question without hurting your friendship if he isn't sharing your feelings.
 
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sportygirl

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Yeah maybe that is a bit of a double standard in a sense, but I also just got out of a relationship and so im afraid to be open I guess, and right now im working on developing a friendship...I feel in some ways I am fairly obvious, i come talk to him, etc... but fears hold me back and im not saying that doesnt happen to guys to, and the straight forwardness of my EX isn't necessary but just being able to tell the difference between him just being friendly and actually maybe liking me as more than a friend.
 
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