can somebody give me some advice?

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Jun 15, 2009
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Why is it so hard to find the right christian girl, I'm trying to serve the lord with a full heart and do what's right but, it seems like it will never happen? does anybody have any clue why it hasnt happened yet?

Has god got done preparing me or preparing her? dont't get it.
 
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missy2shoes

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Well Isaac was 40 when God brought him Rebekah ;).....you're 22.....;)........at any rate keep seeking God and stay focused on what He's calling you to do now....the rest will fit into place....
 

Kakashi

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it has not happened because it hasn't happened yet. Awhile back i figured out that wondering about it does little good. All you can do is pray, wait and watch.
 
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pinkstix56

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hmm you seem like my type.
 

tjogs

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Servingchrist, Im im same situation as you are. 25 yrs, gone trough 3 relationships, 3 times dumped and all the 3 girls now says they don't even want to belive God. (which makes me even more sad) Well from the experience I've got so far I know that finding the right girlfriend for me is almost impossible for any man. Only God is able to lead right girl for me. I feel I have nothing to do by my own for the matter but maby that's the way God want it to go to prevent me doing something stupid and hurt myself more than I have done so far.
 
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faith79

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My advice - don't "try" to serve the Lord - trust in the Lord. There is no "try" in trust. Trying is human effort and will always ultimately fail. Instead trust God moment by moment, day by day.
 

Kakashi

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My advice - don't "try" to serve the Lord - trust in the Lord. There is no "try" in trust. Trying is human effort and will always ultimately fail. Instead trust God moment by moment, day by day.

^^ good advice! I concur.