Exactly, Freddy Boy! It starts with Loving others. Try it, you might like it!
Please 'continue' in your 'self' love and ignore the 'AGAPE' of the written New Covenant/Testament, 'every single of them', which all of us 'agreed' and GOD made with us by the 'Blood of HIS SON', in order to 'listen' and 'pay attention' to CHRIST's Word/teaching of the New Covenant/Testament, therefore to 'abide' and 'practice' and be 'set free' from sin and death once again.
GOD bless in the name of LORD JESUS CHRIST.