Hi MCAP,
Could I ask... why is going to church the focus?
Church is a wonderful and necessary place in the life of a believer, but it is not the central place. The central place is Christ being our Lord each and every moment.
Might I suggest that you make God's joy, love and obedience to His word a more complete part of your family's (and your own) every waking moment. Think upon and discuss His teachings in relation to every aspect of your lives. Draw closer to Him every waking and sleeping moment. Be joyful in both adversity and in good times, not because the times are good, but because God is good. Sing His praises. Pray on all occassions. Love those who are your neighbours and your enemies. Follow the Lord your God.
No matter how much they deny it, our children desire to be like their parents. If you draw near to God, your daughter will follow you.
As your daughter draws closer to God, she will naturally desire to go to church. But at that point though, it will no longer really be an issue.