Do looks matter?

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Manny21

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Manny21 said:
I look at how a woman looks because that's the first thing that I see if I haven't met them yet. If I'm not physically attracted to them it doesn't matter too much once I get to know them because I usually look at personality and looks combined at that point. I think God has my best interest in mind when it comes to a future wife, so I don't think He would give me a wife that isn't attractive to me. We were created in Gods image which means we are all beautiful to God, but me personally when it gets down to the whole marriage thing I think God will put us with someone we are physically and spiritually attracted to, as well as someone who is responsible and the number one focus even above there spouse is GOD. I hope this helps you. : )
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  • Proverbs 31:30
    [SUP] [/SUP]Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
    But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

    Your future wife will be beautiful to you but true beauty is a spiritual thing.

    "Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, [SUP]2 [/SUP]when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. [SUP]3 [/SUP]Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— [SUP]4 [/SUP]rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. [SUP]5 [/SUP]For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, [SUP]6 [/SUP]as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror" 1 Peter 3

    [h=3]1 Samuel 16:7
    But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees;[SUP] [/SUP]for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”[/h]I think if you want a godly women you have to have a heart after God cos the flesh lusts after things of the flesh. Unless you have a heart after God you will not see people as God sees them. I've reached the point now that if someone doesn't have a heart after God that they are not attractive to me, theres nothing attractive to me anymore cos its like God shows me who they really are. The outward appearance does fade, it is fleeting...when it fades and the person looks like a prune all you're left with is whats inside them ;) If that's beautiful then their beauty never fades.


 
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Manny21

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Very good, and scriptural. I like that you have an understanding about what we're talking about here, it's good there is no doubt that God has shown you some important things about this subject. I will keep commenting on stuff that you write, just because the input that people get from it can really help to enrich their spirits.
 
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