Does God love others more than me?

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I have anxiety disorder.I been very anxious this week.I feel I can't breathe freely.I can't sleep well.I asked God for help but I am still anxious.Yesterday in a chat group a christian brother said something like this,you want God's blessing?Have you done your duty?Have you read Bible everyday?Have you prayed on everything?Have you go to the gathering often?Have you given 10% of your income and evangelize to others fervently?He doesn't say to me but these words offended me.It made me think,do you mean that I am jobless and I can't give 10% of my income so that God doesn't bless me.It made me feel worse.
 
I would highly encourage you to keep your mind on God every way you can. Immerse yourself in the bible so that your thoughts are on good things rather than things that would make you anxious.

"You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You." (Isaiah 26:3)

"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9)
 
I don't think you understand.I don't want to be anxious,I don't want to be depressed.I hate both anxiety and depression but they haunt me.And God seems so distant.
 
i feel the same way..very anoxious,but i dont think god is the problem,i think the problem is in us,maybe we dont trust him enough or dosent make our parts idk..
 
I do believe that, that is not what he really mean. Back to your question. Does God love other more than you.? God loves you the same as He love other. Jesus died for all, and not just for some person. as what John 3:16 says, for God so loved the world. the word world there means every people in this world. maybe we are in different situations and circumstances but it doesn't mean that God loves other more than He loves you. sometimes God allow those circumstances to come into our life for us to grow spiritually, for us to become stronger spiritually, challenge our faith to Him, seek Him and others.. read Job chapter 1 in the bible. Hope and pray that these words will help.. :)
 
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Hi sweet, all what God wants is you and wants the best for you, Just spend time alone with him in your favorite spot, What I do is that I go to my favorite spot which is my deck.or in the kitchen were the sun is coming out and I just bring a devotional bible and some soft worship on and coffee and relax and just start talking to him out loud..sorta like talking to a friend when you spend Time with Her or him. I'll be praying for you and Jesus loves everyone the same :)*hugs*
 
Well,it is unreasonable but I got angry with God today and questioned his love.I think I have messed up.The moment I kneeled down, I began to ask,Lord,do you love me?do you care about me?……Have I hurt the one I love?
 
Sister, we've all had moments like these but God is greater. At least you're talking to Him!

ISAIAH 26:3
You will keep him in perfect peace,
Whose mind is stayed on You,
Because he trusts in You.
 
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Cast your care on Him for he cares for you.! Rebuke these feelings in the name of Jesus. The enemy shall flee from you. God loves us all the same . Battle field of the mind my dear. Learn scripture and speak back gods word for that is where the power is within. Anxiety is another form of fear. False Evidence Appearing Real. God is not of Fear but of Love and sound mind!
 
Be careful who you talk to on chat. Some chatters will definitely show you through their words that they think they are more worthy of God's love. Its the very thing Jesus disliked about the Pharisees. And those who exalt themselves like that will truly be humbled.
The truth is that God loves you more than you can imagine. It is not a competition! He wants you to seek Him and I am so happy to hear that you are praying and asking Him these questions already. God bless you. God love you.
Remember when His disciples argued about who would be the greatest, Jesus responded 'the least among you will be the greatest" so... Riddle me that. :)
 
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The plain and simple truth..God loves EVERYONE equally..he does not play favorites or have "pets".. :)
 
God loves you and still does no matter what you did :) we all have those moments.
 
Sweet_ said:
I have anxiety disorder.I been very anxious this week.I feel I can't breathe freely.I can't sleep well.I asked God for help but I am still anxious.Yesterday in a chat group a christian brother said something like this,you want God's blessing?Have you done your duty?Have you read Bible everyday?Have you prayed on everything?Have you go to the gathering often?Have you given 10% of your income and evangelize to others fervently?He doesn't say to me but these words offended me.It made me think,do you mean that I am jobless and I can't give 10% of my income so that God doesn't bless me.It made me feel worse.
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Well,it is unreasonable but I got angry with God today and questioned his love.I think I have messed up.The moment I kneeled down, I began to ask,Lord,do you love me?do you care about me?……Have I hurt the one I love?
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darling girl...♥

God's love for you is infinite, just as He is.
it is not, nor has it ever been, dependent on what you do or don't do.

while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
that's God's ultimate declaration and demonstration of how He loves you.

please hear this: we are all broken people.
and we are all bad people, and you know what?
God loves bad, messed up people, because bad, messed up people
are all that there are!

you will never be so 'bad' God will love you less,
and you can never be good enough to cause God to love you more.

think of Jesus, beaten, scourged, spat upon, mocked by His own creation,
hanging naked, humiliated, on a cross...
praying, Father, forgive them!

there's God's uninterrupted, "I love you, my child.
I am with you.
I am for you."

i love you, too-
ellie
 
Last evening,I wanted to sleep well,no nightmares,no insomnia,I wanted to rest my head.My grandma didn't understand and complained I went to bed too early.I was sad,crying to Jesus for help.I wept and wept and I thought Jesus must have seen.However,I couldn't sleep.Jesus didn't seem to help.Am I a child to him?I got more and more angry.I always believed Jesus is very very kind and willing to comfort me.But this feels rather cold.
 
Abba Father, take our Sister Sweet under the Shadow of Your wings and draw her close to You. Holy Spirit, minister to her mind, establish her thoughts, let her rest in You, Lord. Let Sweet abandon her worries and anger and restlessness over to You. I pray she learns to rest in Your love, to Trust in Your grace, to learn how Faithful, how True, how Mighty You are Father God! LET HER SEE YOU, LORD! Let the scales fall from her eyes that she know You intimately as Savior and Lord! Hallelujah! Be glorified in this young woman's life, Lord Jesus! I thank You for hearing our prayers!
 
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.
 
I regreted.God is infinitely wise,I am a silly child.I hope to know more about Him.
I am sorry,my Heavenly Father,I have tested you and I have had unreasonable anger.Please forgive me.Amen.
 
He all read has, question is will you forgive your self. I remember someone ask me that and it made me realize that God all ready had forgiven and forgotten and that all he ask is to forgive our selves and move on. God lives in the moment when you ask for forgiveness he erases and put in a place to start over New day New hour New moment :) thoughs who criticized you or put you down are the ones who can't forgive them selves and for he who is with out sin cast the first stone. So go and enjoy you life sweet and remember God loves you and has great plans for you :) love ya girl! :) God loves you more then what you think for he created you :)
 
Hey there I feel u, I have a sleeping disorder that made me loose all the good jobs ive hd in the past. Now all these medical bills r pilling up
 
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