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Genesis 50:15-21:
I love this story.
I’ve heard many people refer to it as a story about forgiveness. They say we should look to Joseph as an example of how we should forgive others as God forgives us our sins.
I say yes, we should indeed look to Joseph as an example as to how we should treat others. It is indeed a lesson to us from God. But it is not about forgiveness.
Let’s take a closer look.
First of all, you gotta know the whole story. For brevity’s sake, I’m going to assume y’all do. You’ve seen Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. "Poor, poor Joseph, whatcha gonna do." This is at the very end, Joseph has come through every trial and tribulation with flying colors (no pun intended), and they all lived happily ever after.
But wait. The brothers, after all that, are still plotting and scheming against their brother. He has just saved their hides – and the hides of the entire Nation of Israel – and they’re still coming up with lies to protect themselves. Will they ever learn?
And Joseph sees right through this. Joseph knows it’s a lie. That’s why he weeps. He knows they still haven’t “got it.” Even after they have seen God’s great power, they still don’t get it.
Now, many of my colleagues – other preachers of the Word – will say that Joseph forgives the brothers. I have to disagree. The word “forgiveness” isn’t there. I even looked at the Hebrew; it’s just not there. Joseph does NOT forgive them. He says instead, “What’s to forgive.”
“Even though you intended to do harm to me, God intended it for good.”
He’s not sugar-coating it. Yes, what the brothers did was absolutely wrong, no ifs ands or buts. According to all human logic, Joseph would be completely justified to exact some kind of retribution. He does not.
He could have said, “You know what? You need to make yourselves right with God, and then it will be fine.” He does not even say that.
Instead, he shows that their actions, though evil from a human perspective, served a greater good.
And that makes me wonder. If an act so heinous as selling your brother as a slave is actually within God’s will, how many more actions, in the “gray area” of sin—or even right over that line into the black—have I accused my sisters and brothers of, that seems obviously wrong to me, but were perhaps stepping stones to greater good in God’s vast, eternal plan.
The Bible says a lot of things. It seems to me that the more something gets repeated in the Bible, the more important it is. Kinda like God really wants to make sure you hear it, so he says it a whole bunch of times in a whole bunch of ways.
And this is just another one of those instances of one of the most common lessons in the Bible: judge not.
I’m not saying that the moral of this story is that it’s okay to sell your brother into slavery. I certainly don’t think God is telling us that it’s okay to sin. To me, it is quite clearly this: God’s job is to judge good and evil. Our job is to love, and leave the rest in God’s hand.
That may be hard to do sometimes. I don’t know if I’d be able to ignore a great big whopper like Joseph’s brothers committed, if I were the victim. I might be able to forgive, but could I really shrug it off, and turn it over to God like Joseph did?
And that is exactly what God calls us to do. It’s not enough to forgive, because in forgiving, we label it a sin, and we take on part of God’s job, of judging. “Forgive and forget” is the world’s way of dealing with wrong-doing. As is so often the case, God calls us to a higher standard. We forget, and we give it to God to forgive.
Many will say that the Old Testament is the Law and the New Testament is the Gospel. That is not true. There are plenty of instances of Law in the New Testament, and plenty of Gospel in the Old. More importantly, there’s a lot that’s both at the same time. This is an example of that:
It’s law: God is reminding us that it is not our job to judge. And yet it’s gospel: we don’t have to judge – that’s up to God.
And since we know we have an Advocate—since we know we have Christ Jesus in our corner—that, my sisters and brothers, is mighty good news.
Amen.
15Realizing that their father was dead, Joseph's brothers said, "What if Joseph still bears a grudge against us and pays us back in full for all the wrong that we did to him?"16So they approached Joseph, saying, "Your father gave this instruction before he died,17"Say to Joseph: I beg you, forgive the crime of your brothers and the wrong they did in harming you.' Now therefore please forgive the crime of the servants of the God of your father." Joseph wept when they spoke to him.18Then his brothers also wept, fell down before him, and said, "We are here as your slaves."19But Joseph said to them, "Do not be afraid! Am I in the place of God?20Even though you intended to do harm to me, God intended it for good, in order to preserve a numerous people, as he is doing today.21So have no fear; I myself will provide for you and your little ones." In this way he reassured them, speaking kindly to them.
I’ve heard many people refer to it as a story about forgiveness. They say we should look to Joseph as an example of how we should forgive others as God forgives us our sins.
I say yes, we should indeed look to Joseph as an example as to how we should treat others. It is indeed a lesson to us from God. But it is not about forgiveness.
Let’s take a closer look.
First of all, you gotta know the whole story. For brevity’s sake, I’m going to assume y’all do. You’ve seen Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. "Poor, poor Joseph, whatcha gonna do." This is at the very end, Joseph has come through every trial and tribulation with flying colors (no pun intended), and they all lived happily ever after.
But wait. The brothers, after all that, are still plotting and scheming against their brother. He has just saved their hides – and the hides of the entire Nation of Israel – and they’re still coming up with lies to protect themselves. Will they ever learn?
And Joseph sees right through this. Joseph knows it’s a lie. That’s why he weeps. He knows they still haven’t “got it.” Even after they have seen God’s great power, they still don’t get it.
Now, many of my colleagues – other preachers of the Word – will say that Joseph forgives the brothers. I have to disagree. The word “forgiveness” isn’t there. I even looked at the Hebrew; it’s just not there. Joseph does NOT forgive them. He says instead, “What’s to forgive.”
“Even though you intended to do harm to me, God intended it for good.”
He’s not sugar-coating it. Yes, what the brothers did was absolutely wrong, no ifs ands or buts. According to all human logic, Joseph would be completely justified to exact some kind of retribution. He does not.
He could have said, “You know what? You need to make yourselves right with God, and then it will be fine.” He does not even say that.
Instead, he shows that their actions, though evil from a human perspective, served a greater good.
And that makes me wonder. If an act so heinous as selling your brother as a slave is actually within God’s will, how many more actions, in the “gray area” of sin—or even right over that line into the black—have I accused my sisters and brothers of, that seems obviously wrong to me, but were perhaps stepping stones to greater good in God’s vast, eternal plan.
The Bible says a lot of things. It seems to me that the more something gets repeated in the Bible, the more important it is. Kinda like God really wants to make sure you hear it, so he says it a whole bunch of times in a whole bunch of ways.
And this is just another one of those instances of one of the most common lessons in the Bible: judge not.
I’m not saying that the moral of this story is that it’s okay to sell your brother into slavery. I certainly don’t think God is telling us that it’s okay to sin. To me, it is quite clearly this: God’s job is to judge good and evil. Our job is to love, and leave the rest in God’s hand.
That may be hard to do sometimes. I don’t know if I’d be able to ignore a great big whopper like Joseph’s brothers committed, if I were the victim. I might be able to forgive, but could I really shrug it off, and turn it over to God like Joseph did?
And that is exactly what God calls us to do. It’s not enough to forgive, because in forgiving, we label it a sin, and we take on part of God’s job, of judging. “Forgive and forget” is the world’s way of dealing with wrong-doing. As is so often the case, God calls us to a higher standard. We forget, and we give it to God to forgive.
Many will say that the Old Testament is the Law and the New Testament is the Gospel. That is not true. There are plenty of instances of Law in the New Testament, and plenty of Gospel in the Old. More importantly, there’s a lot that’s both at the same time. This is an example of that:
It’s law: God is reminding us that it is not our job to judge. And yet it’s gospel: we don’t have to judge – that’s up to God.
And since we know we have an Advocate—since we know we have Christ Jesus in our corner—that, my sisters and brothers, is mighty good news.
Amen.