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Hello all!
I am new to these forums and wanted some advice as I am truly trying to be a christian and forgive. My H cheated and I found out about 6 months ago. I have stayed with my H and we are trying to move past this horrible time in our lives. It has been such a struggle for me to move past all of this and I still have some anger twords him. I don't know what to do. He is doing all of the right things. We are both committed to making this work and I find that I am the one to ruin those special moments we have together. I am not sure why I continue to push him away if I am trying to put our marriage back together. I trust God and know that I am doing the right thing by loving my husband and working though this, yet I don't understand how to push these negative feelings away. Does anyone have any great advice in trying to be more positive when I am around him and not have any anger or resentment twords him?
I am new to these forums and wanted some advice as I am truly trying to be a christian and forgive. My H cheated and I found out about 6 months ago. I have stayed with my H and we are trying to move past this horrible time in our lives. It has been such a struggle for me to move past all of this and I still have some anger twords him. I don't know what to do. He is doing all of the right things. We are both committed to making this work and I find that I am the one to ruin those special moments we have together. I am not sure why I continue to push him away if I am trying to put our marriage back together. I trust God and know that I am doing the right thing by loving my husband and working though this, yet I don't understand how to push these negative feelings away. Does anyone have any great advice in trying to be more positive when I am around him and not have any anger or resentment twords him?