Friendship Struggles...please help

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sportygirl

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OK so I have known my best guy friend for four years now, and yeah i had liked him at one point but now were just friends and its great that way. Thats not my issue, my issue is with helping him, he is datin ga 16 year old which to start is bad hes my age, and second he wanted to sleep with a 21 year old cause it was tempting. He is convinced that all guys feel this way and that its just the way guys are wired and I understand that yes the temptation is out there, but how do i tell him that he doesn't have to subscribe to this belief. Overall our conversation had a positive ending despite the name calling and him bringing up my ex, we ended on good terms, and I will definetly be praying for him and I ask for your prayers as well.

I also understand that this is his choice and I can't change him, etc. And I don't want to I just want to be there for him. How do I do this from here on out, ive tol dhim my feelings about it with 100% honesty where do I go from here?
 
Nov 2, 2009
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Take it all to God. He is the light unto our paths.
Maybe ask him to talk about his sexuality with someone more appropriate - eg another guy/mentor from church or something?