That is definately a worry of mine too. But I kep reminding myself to put my faith, hope & trust in God. ALso keep praying about it. And finally get up & try to do something about it. I don't think God expects His children to sit around & do nothing but wait for Him to just bring all we want to our door. If a spouse is what you seek then be socially active & involved in activities that will allow you to constantly meet new people. Try to be outgoing. Beyond that I'm open for suggestions.