I think you are asking for advice. Here it is:
You want the man God has for you, right? I have never been on a date, never kissed a woman except my wife. God told me who it was going to be. Jesus married us personally. We ministered together for 31 years, and I gave her into the hands of Jesus when she died. God is quite capable of solving this problem, and you don't need to "play by the rules" for Him to do it. Pray first about who you are in Him, and then ask if He wants you married. Then, and only then, ask who.