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For most part of 2013 my hubby came down with some strange thing where he'd have breathing attacks following by extreme fatique, eventually we were referred to a Cardiologist. In December 21st, we rushed him to hospital thinking he was having heart failure, after multiple tests a full cardio test, there was nothing wrong with his heart. They then tested his chest and lungs... found nothing and he was sent home. Then on the 27th we rushed him off again and this time they thought or considered a Hernia he was diagnosed with 6 months prior and they admitted him, testing to see if his stomach has pushed too far past his diaphragm. After 3 days in hospital and a Gastroenoscopy later, there was NO sign of the hernia, no sign of anything - and he was again sent home - still suffering with these random symptoms... I'm starting to think he's paranoid due to the fact that he's scared that its some sort of cancer and the doctors are not testing for the right thing. The problem I have with this is that he's constantly googling his symptoms, comes home and tells me of all these horrible posibilities. When I tell him he's paranoid and causing anxiety that ends up giving him these breathing attacks he denies it.
Its starting to affect me in a way of... "Why don't you just die and get it over with" Its not about not being sympathetic... or having empathy. I just don't know how to help him - it frustrates me to a point of insanity and I really need God to free him from this fear, heal him mentally and if needed physically - and in turn also save my sanity It's really bad....
Its starting to affect me in a way of... "Why don't you just die and get it over with" Its not about not being sympathetic... or having empathy. I just don't know how to help him - it frustrates me to a point of insanity and I really need God to free him from this fear, heal him mentally and if needed physically - and in turn also save my sanity It's really bad....