Sometimes the Lord can seem so far away. In the middle of troubles or loneliness, God seems beyond our reach. I have found that when I focus more on my situation, I end up sinking into despair. This reminds me of the story in Matthew 14 when Peter saw Jesus walking on the water and he wanted to join Him. Jesus invited Peter to come to Him, and Peter stepped out of the boat and walked on the water toward the Lord. But then he began focusing on the storm and the rising waves around him, and he began to sink. He had taken his focus off the Lord and put it onto his surroundings, and the waves started pulling him under. But when he focused his attention back onto the Lord and cried out to Jesus to save him, Jesus reached out his hand and did just that.
I believe this story is included in the Bible to encourage us when we are surrounded by life's storms. When our focus is on the things that are wrong in our lives, we become consumed by our problems, troubles are all we see, and we sink into the waves of despair. But when we cry out to Jesus, spending time focusing more on Him than on our problems, that is when our problems no longer have such a tight hold on us. They lose their power over us. When we spend more time in our prayers praising God for who He is, thanking Him for things He has done for us, reading and meditating on His Word, singing spiritual songs, praying for others, etc., rather than only petitioning God to meet our needs or complaining to Him about our problems, then those issues in our lives can be put into proper perspective.
The Bible tells us to magnify the Lord. We need to do that for very good reason, for whatever we magnify becomes larger. When we place an ant under a magnifying glass, that tiny creature can look huge. When we place our problems under our emotional magnifying glass, they seem larger than life, so big and insurmountable. BUT, when we magnify Jesus, He becomes all that we see. Our problems shrink in comparison to Jesus, and we can see them in proper perspective. When we spend time in His presence, He can calm us down so that we can think and see things more clearly. Have you ever been so upset that you couldn’t think or see anything clearly, but then a family member or friend spent some time with you, speaking softly and gently, and helped soothe and calm you. Then you were able to tackle the matter at hand from a better frame of mind.
Problems don’t just disappear, but God walks with us through hard times, guiding us so that we can eventually find solutions. He also sends brothers and sisters to encourage us along the way. I just want to encourage you to keep your focus upward, allowing God to fill you with peace, and you’ll be amazed at how He brings you through these struggles and how you will be able to sense His Spirit with you.