Forgive me if I'm out of place, but I hear alot of hurt and anger coming from you. You know, I was in your shoes,until a couple of weeks ago. For years, me and my adopted family, I was disowned. Due to a divorce I had. But we changed. And even though i didn't get the apologies that I wanted, especially for the abuse and never letting me see my grandma again when I was 11. I always longed for there love. I'd even have night terrors of me running away, and being caught and trapped in my room. But I still loved them. And over years of time, instead of looking at them ,in my selfish point of view,they need to apologise, I had a change of heart and said, I want then as my family, so I will apologise. Yes I was a difficult kid too. And now ,10 years later,we are walking forward. BUT, I know there can be those types of people that aren't followers of Christ and live in there sinful nature. And for that, pray for them, and mourn for them. There miserable inside. Keep sharing the truth. Be like Christ. Hope this helps hun.