husband lost to facebook

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Ashalowm

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my husband is lost in a relationship he started in Facebook and I'm brokenhearted over it.
 
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Ashalowm

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As I write he is in the living room talking with her. He asked me to excuse him so he could finish what they started this evening. I feel like I m crazy to put up with this and yet I don't think the Lord wants me to leave him just yet.
 
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thats is absolutely horrible Ashalown. seek counsel/ advice from family and friends. you should not be made second for some random facebook relationship.
 
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Wug

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I'm in a VERY similar situation. This is so hard. Stop it as early as you can. I think it would work best if it were treated like any intervention. Talk to him privately, and pray together. Let him know that you know if you haven't already.
 
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miktre

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Hang in there girl and know that Christ loves you, child. Read some soothing psalms for they will comfort you. This too shall pass but God abounding love for His children will not. Come and stay awhile and walk and talk with us and know us for you have friends here.
 
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Chick4Jesus

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Do as the Bible suggests:
1. Confront him of his sinful relationship. If that doesn't work...
2. Go to your pastor and ask him to confront him. If that doesn't work...
3. You, your pastor and an elder or more from the church must confront him. If he still refuses to end the relationship, you are free to leave or to ask him to leave.

I would also have the Internet disconnected ;) It is a stumbling block to him at this point.

Good luck!
 

cookie39

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Break the computer, cut the cords. I don't know woman put up with nonsense as if they are or like being treated that way. I lived alone and I know it is said that it is not easy, that's so not true, it is easy. only things that is hard is what you make hard. if you allow it; they will do it. no one could do nothing to you that you don't let them. what would be easier? you staying and be treated like trash; and hurting... or not hurting because you did something for yourself by not letting someone treat you bad. it really never made since to me, how people say it hurt them to be treated wrong, but hurt them more to walk away from it. I know for some it's like saying; I got my arm caught in a grinder and it hurts really bad.. but once I got it out it hurts even more, and for some it does; but think about it; the longer your arm is in the grinder the more damage it will do, but the sooner you can get it out or turn it off ( make them stop the damage to your heart and mind) the sooner you can start healing, mending up the wombs, taking medication ( resting in the Word of the Lord ) I know God never ever ment for us to treated like nothing for we are all someone, you are Unique, One Of A Kind, there is none other like you in this World , if he loose you; you know he can't find another like you. God never told us that we are to stay for no other reason then he has not finished making you a way out. that you will not want for nothing. God said pray for them not stay with them that dispitfully misuse you. it is wrong and I do pray something for him ...
is that God have mercy on him, and forgive him for what he is doing to you. I hope you can find peace in your heart to know that God will not let him get away with this; for revengance is mine saith the Lord; I Will Repay. so have the peace of God rule and reign in your heart; be the wife called you to be and do what you are suppose to do and God will not hold you accoutable for what you have not done as a child of God. be nice to him do not nag or complain ( and don't cut the cord to the computor, nor break it lol ) I did this as God commanded me to do while my ex was doing me wrong. I was nothing but nice to him no matter what he did, I would tell him I am not going to worry about him, because I know God got me; and he got him too. if it got too bad I would praise God till I felt better for it help you hear from the Holy Spirit; and he will remind you all what God has said about your situation. when God made a way out for me, he had a place for me to move in and every thing else, most of all I had "PEACE" I had it even befor I left. I did not cry one tear over leaving, I was happy because God did it for me; and he let me know it was what was best for me. so I hope you know that if you stay it is not because you are a week minded woman but because God got you. and you will wait on him to either give you the way and the peace to walk away or he is going to correct what your husband is doing with a strong rebuke..

Praise God .