I NEED CHRISTAIN ADVICE! HELP

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ChristainMaddy442

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hey, I am a 15 almost 16 year old girl. My faith in god has always been strong, but there are some things I just don't understand. Im a teenage girl with a good Christian boyfriend but sometimes the hormones get to me. I do not believe in any activity until I am married and so does he but the hormones go crazy sometimes. Anyway, I pray to god to forgive me for my "thoughts" and little actions(kissing, hugging) but I just feel like he is angry with me or something... no matter what I do, the feelings are always there... how does god view sex? how can I fight through those gifted moments meant for the future? how can I avoid that sin? is having hormones and feelings for sex a sin? Everyone was a teenager once... give me advice.
 
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Ugly

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Temptation isn't a sin. Which is what you're feeling. Sexual feelings are natural. God gave them to us, so having them isn't going to cause Him to look down on you. How you handle those thoughts and feelings is what matters.
But really, its as simple as this... if you are having these issues and you continue spending time alone, you are setting yourself up to fail. Bible says to FLEE youthful lusts, and you are not feeling if you keep putting yourself in situations that tempt you. You seem to indicate that there has already been a little going past your boundaries, so why aren't you changing your habits?
Really, though, i don't really think anyone should be dating that isn't old enough to marry. Because what is the point otherwise? And by not dating you don't run into these temptations. So at the end of the day, if God asks you are you doing everything you can to avoid sexual temptation, knowing that you are dating, and that you keep being alone with your boyfriend, even though you know its tempting, can you tell God honestly 'yes i am doing everything?'.
You can't stop the thoughts or desires, but you can stop feeding them by being in situations that bring them up.
 
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ChristainMaddy442

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Thank you, this helped a lot! I just did not understand! I will take your advice on trying now. I will let him know too because he feels the same way. Im sorry if I indicated I went far, I meant the thoughts I would get from either a kiss to a hug or something like that. I was curious as to why he created such a powerful thing? thank you for your honest advice! ill keep you in mind.
 
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b15542

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at the end of the day god will forgive you for all ur sins you only have to read your bible to see it
 
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