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AnandaHya
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Why are you looking at yourself and who you are or were instead of Jesus and who you can be if you allow Jesus to teach and guide and heal you and become the person you are suppose to be?
Dear Heavenly Father we ask for Your wisdom and strength and light. Please bind the darkness that seeks to destroy us and give us wisdom to face the day and grow in You towards Your upward call. Save us Lord and lead us so that we might do the good works you have created us to do. Give us our purpose, give us our faith and hope. Give us Your love and presence and comfort. Be with us as we cry and remind us to give thanks when we laugh and rejoice in all Your blessings. Lord, give us a heart that can cry out Abba, Father! Strengthen our faith and hope. Do not let the darkness overcome us but shine Your light into our lives. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
Your not stupid Lovedlady and even if you were then your halfway to wisdom because God tells us this:
1 Corinthians 3
18 Let no one deceive himself. If anyone among you seems to be wise in this age, let him become a fool that he may become wise. 19 For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, “He catches the wise in their own craftiness”;[a] 20 and again, “The LORD knows the thoughts of the wise, that they are futile.”
James 1:5
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
I too often feel the fool but I know God teaches us wisdom if we pray and ask and listen with humble and contrite hearts. Don't give in to despair. Look beyond and see God's Light and Hear His call. He has a purpose and plan for your life, are you ready to hear it?
Pray to God who hears your every whisper and listen and wait patiently and have faith that He will answer.
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shekaniah
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GodsavemeifyoureallyExist
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I feel ya there i use to wont to die along time ago i became emo n depressed with life n cutting my
wrist because i was tired of all the kids at school bothering me i used anything i could find really even metal
paper clips my mom took all my razors because my sister saw my wrist i did it because the kids at my schools they
would always find ways to get me in detention or banned from school the popular girl at school could not
stand me being mouthy back at her she stood right in my face that day i will never forget it then she told me run your
mouth like that at me again n i will make your life here hell she didn't lie about that because every chance she
got she bothered me then she got others from her group to drag me in to the boys bathroom then she would
make them strip off my skirt i fight back but i could never get away because they boys would alway block the
way for me to get out then the girl would say to them keep her in here i am going to go get the teacher so she can get in trouble
the boys would obey her then she would go get the teachers n show her me skirt-less in the boys bathroom
n i would get banned from school no matter how much i tell her they forced me in there she would never
believe me my dad was so angry at me when he found out i was banned from school that he grounded me
for months for what she had done so much has happed to me in school that just thinking about it gives me
nightmares the only good thing came from it was the poems school inspired me to write about the horrors i
faced while i was there
wrist because i was tired of all the kids at school bothering me i used anything i could find really even metal
paper clips my mom took all my razors because my sister saw my wrist i did it because the kids at my schools they
would always find ways to get me in detention or banned from school the popular girl at school could not
stand me being mouthy back at her she stood right in my face that day i will never forget it then she told me run your
mouth like that at me again n i will make your life here hell she didn't lie about that because every chance she
got she bothered me then she got others from her group to drag me in to the boys bathroom then she would
make them strip off my skirt i fight back but i could never get away because they boys would alway block the
way for me to get out then the girl would say to them keep her in here i am going to go get the teacher so she can get in trouble
the boys would obey her then she would go get the teachers n show her me skirt-less in the boys bathroom
n i would get banned from school no matter how much i tell her they forced me in there she would never
believe me my dad was so angry at me when he found out i was banned from school that he grounded me
for months for what she had done so much has happed to me in school that just thinking about it gives me
nightmares the only good thing came from it was the poems school inspired me to write about the horrors i
faced while i was there
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Desamay
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you ar ein my prayers and it's you opening up and crying out for help and a friend not attintion. Pray girl pray. Don't blame God know he is there, and it's so easy to walk away from him. But he never walks away from us. Jesus died on the Cross for your pain and all your pain girl, the pain your dealing with now. (Open the eyes of my Heart Lord I want to see you) that is a song that will just lift you up. I pray for you and will keep you in my prayers.
The answer is simple. It's like this, it's easy to become your own worst enemy. Like the pink song.
When I was young, maybe about 14 I was beeatching and complaining about life to my older brother. He sat me down and said "look, it's like this. Anyone who ever told you life was gonna be easy for fair, lied!" . That's true, life is full of problems. They help us grow. Anyway, but when they happen or keep happening it's so easy to get down on yourself about them. Thinking your no good etc etc.
But here's the bottom line. There's only 2 creatures in the world that are gonna be on yours side. Your friends will betray you, so will your family, and everyone else most definitely. That leaves 2 creatures. God is gonna be for you. And the second of the two is YOU. You got to become your own best friend. So when times are tough you'll get through them. You'll stay positive. You'll stay level headed, and stay hopeful through the challenges.
The way to actually ally with yourself is by starting to say "I like myself" all the time, as crazy at that may sound. And start picking out and thinking about all the things you're good at or the talents you've been blessed with. Just get that going on so you'll gain a foundation of confidence in who you are and dispell all this low self esteem once and for all. Anyone can get there, you got to reprogram you mind though. Thats' where the affirmations are a must.
Anyway, dear lord please help this person to become their own best friend again. And help them to understand that suicide is Satans tool to deceive people into going to hell. Amen.
When I was young, maybe about 14 I was beeatching and complaining about life to my older brother. He sat me down and said "look, it's like this. Anyone who ever told you life was gonna be easy for fair, lied!" . That's true, life is full of problems. They help us grow. Anyway, but when they happen or keep happening it's so easy to get down on yourself about them. Thinking your no good etc etc.
But here's the bottom line. There's only 2 creatures in the world that are gonna be on yours side. Your friends will betray you, so will your family, and everyone else most definitely. That leaves 2 creatures. God is gonna be for you. And the second of the two is YOU. You got to become your own best friend. So when times are tough you'll get through them. You'll stay positive. You'll stay level headed, and stay hopeful through the challenges.
The way to actually ally with yourself is by starting to say "I like myself" all the time, as crazy at that may sound. And start picking out and thinking about all the things you're good at or the talents you've been blessed with. Just get that going on so you'll gain a foundation of confidence in who you are and dispell all this low self esteem once and for all. Anyone can get there, you got to reprogram you mind though. Thats' where the affirmations are a must.
Anyway, dear lord please help this person to become their own best friend again. And help them to understand that suicide is Satans tool to deceive people into going to hell. Amen.
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Belinda
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Hey there...I see this post was placed last year Nov. Are you feeling better yet? I know the feeling...sometimes I also just wish I cud stop being...it is not always a way to seek attention, sometimes the weighs of life gets a bit too much. I really hope things are looking better for you....a nice quote to remember, The God who knows our limits, will graciously limit our load.... Even when it seems like the furthest thing from the truth, just believe that He never gives more than we can handle!
I felt exactly the same you do now, those horrible feeling you have there are terrible aunt they? I had them for years.
The more I tried to get out of these feeling they become even more intense.
This is why I had them, the rout course; I had a build-up stress in my muscles throughout my entire body.
The stress courses the bad feeling? the stress FEEDS the bad feeling?, the five main negative emotions are, anger, sadness. Hurt, fear, and guilt, so all that stress feeds each negative emotion.
Learn yoga free from the internet, and distress every day twice, you will be ok, its takes 3mouths to get rid of stress completely out your body.
I will send you a link, your need this as well, it teaches you on how to resolve things in your mind. Unresolved things in the mind the negative feeling can stay with you for indefinite. It a must have and do?
I did both these things and I got out of all the horrible feeling. I know how you feel.
Jesus loves you, he told me to tell you that, and he is there with you now. Jesus has a plan for your life. He telling me how much he loves you.