I tried to kill myself when I was 17, obviously failed but I was out for 3 days. Jesus was there when I came to, He spent the next 3 years showing me in great detail the world to come, and how this one failed in becoming that. To be honest, hardly a day goes by that I don't pray I be done with this and on to the next. If people only knew... we suffer as long and hard as humanly possible because we only believe and don't know. But I promised God I wouldn't try that again.
Jesus says we will suffer. Paul suffered, and wished to move on, (For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain Phil 1:21+), but thought it necessary to remain in the body. He also said in 1 Thess 3:8 for now we live, if you are standing fast in the Lord. While if we are saved we will not go to 'hell' for commiting suicide, we are told not to, and we will account for it if we do.
I wish I knew more about your situation, you have my prayers and understanding in what I do know; and I pray, Lord God, that You be God over this situation. Bear this one up Holy Spirit, that she not take the shortcut home. And may her soul be saved in Christ either way.
Amen
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