Is it a sin

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I am 41 years old, I was bought up in a loving Christian home and I became a Christian when I was about 7. I have been a committed Christian all that time and have spent time on the mission field as a pilot.
I have lived with a secret all my life until about 3 years ago when I told my wife, who is the only other person I have told. (We have been married 16 and 1/2 years now).
I enjoy wetting and messing my pants and wearing diapers.
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Tahoma, Calibri, Geneva, sans-serif]My wife was really good about it when I told her and lets me wear diapers to bed. I only wear them on week ends and only to bed now.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Tahoma, Calibri, Geneva, sans-serif]I don't know why I started but I started doing it when I was about 12 years old. I always wanted to wear diapers but I was not able to get any so I just went in my pants. It was not untill 3.5 years ago that I started to wear diapers.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Tahoma, Calibri, Geneva, sans-serif]I was very careful and never got caught, not even when I got married. About 6 years ago when we returned from the mission field we were living with my parents. My wife was doing the washing and noticed my pants smelt like pee. She said nothing to me as she did not want to embarrass me.
Up until around 3 years ago I thought I was the only one who did this sort of thing. (I did not have the internet as a kid and never thought to look it up until three years ago)
So one night, 3 years ago, I plucked up the courage to tell my wife what I did. She did not get mad in fact she was calm and supportive. While she supported me she did not want to know when I went in my pants.
I only told my wife about the diapers about 5 months ago and again she was supportive and let me wear them to bed.
Anyway I was doing my quiet time in the bath the other night and I felt the Lord say to me to stop doing it or I would miss a blessing.
I want to stop but it is sooooo hard. I have been doing this for most of my life.
I thought it would be easy.
The messing is easy because I never really liked the clean up. But the wetting and Diapers is really hard. I have not worn a diaper for 2 weeks and there is not a day that goes by where I do not want to put one on. The wetting I have cut back on but still weaken.
Thoughts any one.[/FONT]
 
There is nothing new under the sun, the Bible tells us. Sin is anything that keeps us focused on our flesh and takes our eyes off Jesus Christ.

Know this, I don't condemn you and neither does the Lord. I will tell you I was addicted to alcohol at one time and I thought finding out why I was drinking would help. It did not. That wasn't the answer. Christ Jesus is the answer.

The blessing I believe you are missing is liberty in Christ. He sees you set free and He wants you to know you are set free in Him. You are focused on your weakness, but Jesus sees you set free and whole.

I pray in Jesus' name that you be renewed in your mind and believe by faith that Christ has made you whole. I posted a comment today, perhaps it may shed some light for you.

http://christianchat.com/christian-...ferent-reaction-i-am-obese-3.html#post2233270

Grace and peace to you in our Lord Jesus Christ.
 
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You're welcome, brother. :)

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Here's a song that blesses my heart, brother. I'll share it with you. :)

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Hi Dazza, the fact that you have the courage to share what you are going through is encouraging, and God sees it first before anybody else and He knows your heart desire and longing to be set free. I believe that He is already helping to set you free in so many ways. Your wife's acceptance and support. your being honest and willingness to bring it out to the open. I don't see any different from what you are going through to what I am going through. I agree with you that because we did those things for so long and it has been engraved into our being and we find it hard to stop, I know that the God that we serve is greater than our addiction and our situation and He is faithful and just to forgive us and give us His grace so we can overcome it. If you think about it, at this stage you are able to clean up afterwards but there will come a time when somebody else will have to clean up afterwards if you will not be able to overcome it. It is my prayer that God will give you the strength and the courage to overcome this challenge. With God you can do it. Bless you.
 
Dazza ... unhygenic ... grow up man ... its as easy as this ... man up ... grow up and put childish things away.

Be an example to others not a mockery.

Tough love no hugs.
 
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