Is it ok???

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What do you think

  • Yes, its okay to not talk to people

    Votes: 2 66.7%

  • No, you should talk to people

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Didnt i vote in the last thread you started you shouldnt start anymore threads

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm one of those people who dont really like talking to others

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Not another poll

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Old Mc donald had a farm

    Votes: 1 33.3%
  • Total voters
    3
  • Poll closed .
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Leilaii425

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So i have a question ive been wondering about lately. I would like some opinions on the matter.

Is okay to not talk to people?? What if people annoy you easily and you would rather not be bothered with them. I know it says in the bible we are you love one another, but cant you love someone from a distance without talking to them? Do you have to be personally involved with alot of people to accomplish this?? What if its just someones personality to just not really like being around people, is that okay???
 
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MdNordlicht

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Feb 19, 2009
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Hm, does "people" mean "everyone"? Or just "certain people"? Or just the "certain people" around you who are "everyone" to "you""?"
 
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Leilaii425

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MdNordlicht said:
Hm, does "people" mean "everyone"? Or just "certain people"? Or just the "certain people" around you who are "everyone" to "you""?"
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matthias, dont read into this, im not talking about you...
 
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MdNordlicht

Senior Member
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Feb 19, 2009
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I really didn't take it that way but in fact wanted to know if you mean everyone when you said people...
 
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Leilaii425

Guest
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MdNordlicht said:
I really didn't take it that way but in fact wanted to know if you mean everyone when you said people...
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good im glad lol yes i mean EVERYONE
 
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MdNordlicht

Senior Member
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Feb 19, 2009
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Then my answer to your question is no...
 
grace

grace

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Sep 8, 2006
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I acctually get what your saying. (pretty sure I do anyway)

For me....it would mean being fake if I go out of my way to talk to someone and ask how they are doing and get into a convo with them etc....if they do annoy me. I know I have done this on occation just out of being polite.....but as a general rule....I have not talked to some @ times. I would be there for anyone if they asked me and needed me....but that is differant than giving the impression that you are fully interested in them etc.

(hopefully I have made sense of that lol)
 
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Leilaii425

Guest
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grace said:
I acctually get what your saying. (pretty sure I do anyway)

For me....it would mean being fake if I go out of my way to talk to someone and ask how they are doing and get into a convo with them etc....if they do annoy me. I know I have done this on occation just out of being polite.....but as a general rule....I have not talked to some @ times. I would be there for anyone if they asked me and needed me....but that is differant than giving the impression that you are fully interested in them etc.

(hopefully I have made sense of that lol)
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yes grace that made perfect sense lol
 
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wwjd_kilden

Guest
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uhm. Depends on the sitution. I once had a two- hour conco with a total stranger, though I@m usually very quiet among people that I don´t know
 
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nanabean

Guest
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My youngest daughter, (I call her "Marisole" in here :p) when in the second grade, was having a very hard time with another little girl "pestering" her "ALL the time" (as she put it back then) One day they were assigned to work in turns on the same computer. This other girl kept after Marisole and after a bit Marisole just quit talking to her.......and then was reported by a mom "helper" to the teacher as "being rude" to the other girl. Marisole came home upset, in tears, and said...."But Mooooom!!! YOU TOLD me 'if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all!!!!!!!" She had a point! :)
 
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