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Hi, I'm kinda worried because everyday my life seems so miserable. I'm one of the people in our church 3 years ago who enjoyed life A LOT. But now, I can't tell If I still have my real life that I wanted to be. I moved from my town to work in another city so that I can help my family specially my dad who's having illness that time but he's now deceased. Courage, hope, lots of plans and helping my family are first in the list when moving to this place but everything was changed. I met a girl in a ferry going to my work place knowing that she's also starting her job in my company. We discussed many things and decided to work as a team for we are strangers or perhaps new to the place. For 2 weeks during our training and going back to the hotel where we stayed ( but separate rooms ), we are both comfortable as a friend. Suddenly both our plans was changed after 2 weeks because we're about to separate ways and find a place to rent for good but she confronted me and asked if we could just stay together, so I said it's fine. After several months, because of how she treats me or let's just say that she's GOOD as a friend and companion, I felt different but I'm keeping it to my self because I don't wanna destroy our friendship. Jealousy came when she told me that she likes my friend ( who's actually married and having an affair with another girl ) and I warned her about it but she didn't listen. I continued admiring her though she's always with my friend and I still kept the friendship. Months past and my stupidity is still killing me, until they broke up with my friend when she knew about the other girl. I was with her all the time cheering her up.
5 months after, something happened to us and it continues for a year and she got pregnant. We both took our responsibilities and welcomed our baby boy last year. The WORST and PAINFUL part is that she never admitted any relationship for the both of us and she still treated me as a FRIEND. I courted her for 2 years but nothing happens and she starts searching for another guy that fits her likes. I felt DOWN and REJECTED everyday because she never cares about me. She's happy when I got my salary so that she can buy things that she wanted and I'm not helping anymore my family because all my money goes to the baby and to her WANTS. I was so blind about everything and when I don't have this wealth, she just go with her friends and hang out. She promised me a lot but I never received neither 1 of them. The GREATEST REGRET I made was when my dad ask me to buy him a nebulizer but I never did because she needs the money. After 3 months, my dad died and I keep blaming myself for not buying him a SIMPLE and CHEAP machine that could probably extends his life. Now, I lost my job and I'm nothing. I still have credits and I can't pay it. I had all this credits because of her and I even don't have something for my self. Now, she even don't care about me. I only ate once a day and I didn't receive any single help from her. I'm now totally LOST, taking prohibited drugs, smoke and stupidity. I want my life back and forget her. PLEASE....I really need your help. Help me back on track.
5 months after, something happened to us and it continues for a year and she got pregnant. We both took our responsibilities and welcomed our baby boy last year. The WORST and PAINFUL part is that she never admitted any relationship for the both of us and she still treated me as a FRIEND. I courted her for 2 years but nothing happens and she starts searching for another guy that fits her likes. I felt DOWN and REJECTED everyday because she never cares about me. She's happy when I got my salary so that she can buy things that she wanted and I'm not helping anymore my family because all my money goes to the baby and to her WANTS. I was so blind about everything and when I don't have this wealth, she just go with her friends and hang out. She promised me a lot but I never received neither 1 of them. The GREATEST REGRET I made was when my dad ask me to buy him a nebulizer but I never did because she needs the money. After 3 months, my dad died and I keep blaming myself for not buying him a SIMPLE and CHEAP machine that could probably extends his life. Now, I lost my job and I'm nothing. I still have credits and I can't pay it. I had all this credits because of her and I even don't have something for my self. Now, she even don't care about me. I only ate once a day and I didn't receive any single help from her. I'm now totally LOST, taking prohibited drugs, smoke and stupidity. I want my life back and forget her. PLEASE....I really need your help. Help me back on track.