married and confused

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filomena

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My husband is a musician (christian) but has fallen from grace. He has been using facebook to talk to girls to satisfy what i didn't. we are working to better things but this left me struggling with self esteem issues. not able to trust my husband and love him completetly. And ive prayed and fasted but cannot seem to get any direction from God. I feel depressed and confused
filomena
 
pickles

pickles

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I so sorry that this has happened to you and your hubby. God does bless your husband by your faith.
Its good that he is willling to work this out with you.
It was years ago when my hubby broke my trust. I had a hard time trusting him again. I kept waiting for this to heal untill Jesus showed me that I had to choose to trust him again.
Basiclly I had to have faith.
I still have a few moments now and then when I get afraid, but I know now that it is my choice, not his actions ,that decide wether I belive.
He has made every effort to heal this, hes not perfect, but he has not broken the trust again.
I will keep both of you in my daily prayers.
Hugs and God bless, pickles
 
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filomena

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Thank you so much for those words. It's always nice to hear someone who cares. Thank you for your prayers
 
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fromtheriver

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I feel you, thats what my mother faced


My mom turned into a Christian, but my father just thought it was ridiculous. Things got worse and eventually he cheated on my mom. She was really hurt, but all she did was pray. Now my father is giving it a try, even going to church. Prayer does it all, so i'll put you in my prayer list.
 
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OreoSoleil

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I haven't experienced it in my life -- but I hear amazing strories of were God changes a heart. It seems to be an amazing miracle -- one my heart seems to pray for. Yes, I agree it comes down to a choice of whether you are willing to let yourself change as well. Be praying for You -- it is cool that he is willing to work things out.
 
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yenguccia

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I know how you feel I have been there. God delivered me from pain and from all my worries.
He will do the same to you too.God loves you and is always merciful..
God bless you...
 
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