the only person i would trust has a bit of an idea what would be good for me here on this earth that is a human being is my father..he is very wise..and sometimes when he has told me things, they've happened. Not saying he does not make mistakes..but if i had to trust in a human to match make for me, it would be Dad..outside of that, i am unsure if even i have the capacity to choose correctly at times. It is a hard thing, because even when you do find a believer who is like minded they have baggage, don't know what they want in life..are very insecure, have little to no relationship experience..don't know how to act when a guy is actually nice to them..etc etc. I still am going to keep being nice, but i do try to keep it chill in this dept..even in church today, noticed a cutie but i wasn't going to do what all the other guys were doing which was 'say hi and introduce themselves'. I am doing the best i can to trust God..i had made bad mistakes/choices in this dept in the past..so i am doing what i can to do things differently.