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I've followed your other thread, so I get what your asking. I think although many people read them, they don't always have advice or comments to give. No offence. Its Just, you'll hear from who is interested. Tough when you really need advice/thoughts though. :)
My friend, about your other thread. Make sure it's God you are hearing from okay? I'm sure your relationship with him is strong enough for you to know anyways, I won't question that. It just seems that the relationship you discribed with this young lady is well....good. It's the interference thats not.
Is this really a deal breaker for you? Do you think you won't be able to handle the pressure that may come along with this relationship? what i do know is, no one relationship is perfect. How do you know that you will not be the one to bring about change in this family, and for their futures?
I guess my real question is, do you believe that God has a specific person for you, or that God will honour your choice in a Godly marital partner? Just Curious.
 
Thanks for answering Strong1. I feel that God has a plan and a specific person. Yes, we all get to choose, but when I look at her family situation, I have to ask myself is that something I can marry into? Also, I have talked to my parents and although I have a right to choose since I am an adult anyway, I felt like God was speaking through them, and telling me that this wasn't the right person for me. Also note, I rushed in our relationship. I kind of skipped the friendship stage and jumped right in with my feelings. I guess I never took time to assess everything, and I am not exactly ready for a serious relationship anyway because I am still getting my direction in life.
 
Then go for GOLD!
You probably have a world of broken heartedness coming, if your plans are to marry one day. Take your time. Choose wisely.
I pray that God would begin to prepare her heart for what you are about to say to her. That she will recieve it with Grace and nothing else.
In afew years this will be a fond memory. A learned experience.;)
 
Strong1 said:
Then go for GOLD!
You probably have a world of broken heartedness coming, if your plans are to marry one day.
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Strong1: Just for clarification. Did you mean if I plan to marry 'her' one day, or marry in general? I am just curious to what you meant by that statement.
 
People check back over and over to see if anyone responded to THEIR comment.

That's my guess.
 
Also, there are many who do not log in and read the forums. Therefore they can't reply as they are not members or just not wanting to log in and be bothered. But i think mostly people just have nothing to say. I'd say easily half the threads i read through i don't post in. Don't need to, or don't have anything of value to add.
 
sometimes someone else has already said what you are thinking clearer and you don't see the point in repeating what they already said so well.
 
Some people, like myself, just read through threads to see other people's thoughts on a matter and mabey I can reflect, u know? I don't always have something worth saying so I often don't :)

God Bless! <3
 
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