This might look sad and nasty: Too often people needed landowner's approval to get married. I watched a movie (with Mel Gibson) that showed me a thing hard to believe, and that's why many used to sin instead of allowing the landlord were first to approve... (That too reminded me those days of slavery in South and North America).
There were civil and political rights for privileged races of light colors; while other human beings were physically abused and enslaved.
What was the attitude of the Catholic Church? Was it “saving” people, or taking advantage in that business?
Have a look at the States who blessed nations to set men free...
Those times were a mess in Europe and America. Marriage needed same race approvals and “the traditional” church was mainly concerned in its decreased economic status. Indulgences were sold “to built” new churches and people needed to pay for their landowner's permission to get marry in Europe. What a sad thing! Today marriage is “free”, and divorce costs you double the inversion...
Historically we've seen how families lost control on us, as children, and let us lead our life the way we were pleased. Fathers left their kids made their choice same way Samson did, receiving no tip of parental advice; while others let church leaders misled them into errors when selecting faulty male or females. Some believers did well when their parents were unwilling (or missing) to help them into marriage.
Who's helping you to find out your Mrs or Mr Right?
Jesus said “those seeking will find, those asking will receive...”; but let us be warned that He also said this life would bring us trouble... (John 16:33).
Sometimes I relied on new technologies to find out my Mrs Right (perhaps that surname does not exist) Ha! Ha!
I never paid for the social service “matching pairs” promised. I wanted to believe what was often offered, but no one would give me what I would be hindered to receive or see from God's hand. These sites are making their deal acting like virtual “chaperons”, love promoters or real counselors for Jews, Christians... an atheist people.
Where is my Mrs Right? (Knock! Knock! May I come in?) Ja! Ja! Ja!
I made my decision and I hope I can accomplish what I liked... I cannot run and hide pretending I like to be an urban hermit, but I'll try to remove this tired secularism from my life.
What if something turns my life around? That will be welcome; but I faced vasectomy to avoid more children and I enjoyed fatherhood already.
What would be my missing piece? Complete peace?
I told my daughter: “Yo no quiero ser abuelo...” and I don't want to be a runaway twice.
Most people I knew wanted to succeed. They tried to do their best, and often shortcomings came where each hidden corner appeared. Some of us failed unintentionally and some lately regret, but God still gives us a 2nd chance.
The world has broaden its ways to cheat, to be double minded and play new game.
How could I risk myself to hurt, since I knew the pains of being hurt?
Will I forget Jesus' teaching, when I'm already told about the broad scope of earthly and heavenly love?
Jesus married no one... I don't know how His mind is and I guess the full nature of His LOVE is above and beyond my own limits (while God's is much more than that).
Todays dating might be changing your Mrs and Mr Right. He (or she) might be endangered to lose or miss you while running too fast on BB chats, SMSs, IMs or FaKeBook.
There are so many ways of exploring, that I confess I'm old fashioned and not updated. What if I admit publicly I liked perfumed snail mail?
Your Mrs and Mr Right live at the corner, same city you are in... or abroad!
My mom is above 70. She still saying “I expect a rich man to take me out to be married”.
Jesus told us “a man speaks from the treasure of his heart”. The mouth speaks from what we've got. So that's an useful tool to keep at hand to find out our Mrs or Mr Right (I better be shut) Who wants to be shot? Ja! Ja!
I hope I finish an article I have published separately, under the named of: “Manual de Supervivencia” (in Spanish). There I shared some tips I've learnt and heard of, and I hope to serve others who see the Internet as a means to find that special someone.
Wikipedia gave me more interesting information on Dating:
“ Social rules regarding dating vary considerably according to variables such as country, social class, religion, age, sexual orientation and gender. Behavior patterns are generally unwritten and constantly changing. There are considerable differences between social and personal values. Each culture has particular patterns which determine such choices as whether the man asks the woman out, where people might meet, whether kissing is acceptable on a first date, the substance of conversation, who should pay for meals or entertainment,[SUP][6][/SUP][SUP][17[/SUP][SUP]][/SUP] or whether splitting expenses is allowed. ”
But what about this next? I should check and confirm:
“Among the Karen people in Burma and Thailand, women are expected to write love poetry and give gifts to win over the man.[SUP][18][/SUP]”
I hope they never take my poems... I wouldn't like mine were used to draw a man. All of mine were written for women! (I had better to hide my nickname) Ha! Ha!
And, on the other side, I would feel disappointed if a woman copies someone's else poetry to woo me or another. That's a fake feeling! (I'd be misguided, at least).
Dating seems to an evaluation process before being married, but I must admit the “hidden” backsliding this could bring on us. Does friendship serve on meeting your Mr Right?
We too often let dating drifted from friendship. We did some things wrong before marriage, and I know how my life ended up to be alone. What's wrong to befriend?
There are nice love stories to learn from. These could be endless, and I'll try to find out how (next life).
Wikipedia keeps on saying: “Since there is uncertainty about how to behave on a date, there are numerous sources of advice available.[SUP][21][/SUP][SUP][22][/SUP][SUP][23][/SUP]”
We had better saving time when learning from others. Some Christians lack the habit to read and learn from safe and holy places, and I don't dare to read too long on a Cosmopolitan magazine, unless I want to know how pagans do and think. Isn't it a battle field we ought to know the enemy?
Children are threat, written violence appears. Am I really armored to this weaponry?
“Sources of advice include magazine articles,[SUP][20][/SUP]self-help books, dating coaches, friends, and many other sources.[SUP][26][/SUP][SUP][27][/SUP][SUP][28][/SUP][SUP][29[/SUP]”
Good! I myself feel challenged...
“And the advice given can pertain to all facets of dating, including such aspects as where to go, what to say, what not to say, what to wear, how to end a date, how to flirt,[SUP][30[/SUP] and differing approaches regarding first dates versus subsequent dates.[SUP][31][/SUP] In addition, advice can apply to periods before a date, such as how to meet prospective partners,[SUP][25][/SUP][SUP][31][/SUP] as well as after a date, such as how to break off a relationship.[SUP][32][/SUP][SUP][33][/SUP][SUP][34][/SUP][SUP][35][/SUP][SUP][36][/SUP][SUP][37][/SUP][SUP][38[/SUP]”
The Bible is plenty of ideas, but these may serve to spare time (if these come from Christians).
I like a friend I have. She is as she is, and I miss we couldn't talk well on the phone today.
I cannot change what it's under my skin. My software, my program, is built in. And I bet God will lead me to the place I need to be...
There were civil and political rights for privileged races of light colors; while other human beings were physically abused and enslaved.
What was the attitude of the Catholic Church? Was it “saving” people, or taking advantage in that business?
Have a look at the States who blessed nations to set men free...
Those times were a mess in Europe and America. Marriage needed same race approvals and “the traditional” church was mainly concerned in its decreased economic status. Indulgences were sold “to built” new churches and people needed to pay for their landowner's permission to get marry in Europe. What a sad thing! Today marriage is “free”, and divorce costs you double the inversion...
Historically we've seen how families lost control on us, as children, and let us lead our life the way we were pleased. Fathers left their kids made their choice same way Samson did, receiving no tip of parental advice; while others let church leaders misled them into errors when selecting faulty male or females. Some believers did well when their parents were unwilling (or missing) to help them into marriage.
Who's helping you to find out your Mrs or Mr Right?
Jesus said “those seeking will find, those asking will receive...”; but let us be warned that He also said this life would bring us trouble... (John 16:33).
Sometimes I relied on new technologies to find out my Mrs Right (perhaps that surname does not exist) Ha! Ha!
I never paid for the social service “matching pairs” promised. I wanted to believe what was often offered, but no one would give me what I would be hindered to receive or see from God's hand. These sites are making their deal acting like virtual “chaperons”, love promoters or real counselors for Jews, Christians... an atheist people.
Where is my Mrs Right? (Knock! Knock! May I come in?) Ja! Ja! Ja!
I made my decision and I hope I can accomplish what I liked... I cannot run and hide pretending I like to be an urban hermit, but I'll try to remove this tired secularism from my life.
What if something turns my life around? That will be welcome; but I faced vasectomy to avoid more children and I enjoyed fatherhood already.
What would be my missing piece? Complete peace?
I told my daughter: “Yo no quiero ser abuelo...” and I don't want to be a runaway twice.
Most people I knew wanted to succeed. They tried to do their best, and often shortcomings came where each hidden corner appeared. Some of us failed unintentionally and some lately regret, but God still gives us a 2nd chance.
The world has broaden its ways to cheat, to be double minded and play new game.
How could I risk myself to hurt, since I knew the pains of being hurt?
Will I forget Jesus' teaching, when I'm already told about the broad scope of earthly and heavenly love?
Jesus married no one... I don't know how His mind is and I guess the full nature of His LOVE is above and beyond my own limits (while God's is much more than that).
Todays dating might be changing your Mrs and Mr Right. He (or she) might be endangered to lose or miss you while running too fast on BB chats, SMSs, IMs or FaKeBook.
There are so many ways of exploring, that I confess I'm old fashioned and not updated. What if I admit publicly I liked perfumed snail mail?
Your Mrs and Mr Right live at the corner, same city you are in... or abroad!
My mom is above 70. She still saying “I expect a rich man to take me out to be married”.
Jesus told us “a man speaks from the treasure of his heart”. The mouth speaks from what we've got. So that's an useful tool to keep at hand to find out our Mrs or Mr Right (I better be shut)
Who wants to be shot? Ja! Ja!I hope I finish an article I have published separately, under the named of: “Manual de Supervivencia” (in Spanish). There I shared some tips I've learnt and heard of, and I hope to serve others who see the Internet as a means to find that special someone.
Wikipedia gave me more interesting information on Dating:
“ Social rules regarding dating vary considerably according to variables such as country, social class, religion, age, sexual orientation and gender. Behavior patterns are generally unwritten and constantly changing. There are considerable differences between social and personal values. Each culture has particular patterns which determine such choices as whether the man asks the woman out, where people might meet, whether kissing is acceptable on a first date, the substance of conversation, who should pay for meals or entertainment,[SUP][6][/SUP][SUP][17[/SUP][SUP]][/SUP] or whether splitting expenses is allowed. ”
But what about this next? I should check and confirm:
“Among the Karen people in Burma and Thailand, women are expected to write love poetry and give gifts to win over the man.[SUP][18][/SUP]”
I hope they never take my poems... I wouldn't like mine were used to draw a man. All of mine were written for women! (I had better to hide my nickname) Ha! Ha!
And, on the other side, I would feel disappointed if a woman copies someone's else poetry to woo me or another. That's a fake feeling! (I'd be misguided, at least).
Dating seems to an evaluation process before being married, but I must admit the “hidden” backsliding this could bring on us. Does friendship serve on meeting your Mr Right?
We too often let dating drifted from friendship. We did some things wrong before marriage, and I know how my life ended up to be alone. What's wrong to befriend?
There are nice love stories to learn from. These could be endless, and I'll try to find out how (next life).
Wikipedia keeps on saying: “Since there is uncertainty about how to behave on a date, there are numerous sources of advice available.[SUP][21][/SUP][SUP][22][/SUP][SUP][23][/SUP]”
We had better saving time when learning from others. Some Christians lack the habit to read and learn from safe and holy places, and I don't dare to read too long on a Cosmopolitan magazine, unless I want to know how pagans do and think. Isn't it a battle field we ought to know the enemy?
Children are threat, written violence appears. Am I really armored to this weaponry?
“Sources of advice include magazine articles,[SUP][20][/SUP]self-help books, dating coaches, friends, and many other sources.[SUP][26][/SUP][SUP][27][/SUP][SUP][28][/SUP][SUP][29[/SUP]”
Good! I myself feel challenged...
“And the advice given can pertain to all facets of dating, including such aspects as where to go, what to say, what not to say, what to wear, how to end a date, how to flirt,[SUP][30[/SUP] and differing approaches regarding first dates versus subsequent dates.[SUP][31][/SUP] In addition, advice can apply to periods before a date, such as how to meet prospective partners,[SUP][25][/SUP][SUP][31][/SUP] as well as after a date, such as how to break off a relationship.[SUP][32][/SUP][SUP][33][/SUP][SUP][34][/SUP][SUP][35][/SUP][SUP][36][/SUP][SUP][37][/SUP][SUP][38[/SUP]”
The Bible is plenty of ideas, but these may serve to spare time (if these come from Christians).
I like a friend I have. She is as she is, and I miss we couldn't talk well on the phone today.
I cannot change what it's under my skin. My software, my program, is built in. And I bet God will lead me to the place I need to be...