hello I'm new to the whole chat room thing, thought I'd get on to make some new friends and just to chat...especially in the mother and daughter area. Maybe someone can answer me, my mother asked my husband and I if she could live with us until she gets back on her feet, we said sure we told her you don't have to pay any utilities or help out with the rent. Just pay on your loans she had a lot of them to pay off.. So, we move her in that following weekend and right after we moved her in she went to her boyfriends for the weekend. A week went by and I thought every thing was ok, but I could here her in the other room complaining about certain things..Well, we have a cat and a small house dog is is totally against animals in the house. She would always find something to complain about non stop..She lived with us for about 2mos. It just grew and grew with more complaints towards the way we live and so on, one day she came home from her bfs house it seemed to me she was ready to fight and argue over money. Well, we have been giving her money every week for gas to get to her job. I dont know she was doing with her monthly check I didnt ask because its none of my business. Well I knew every tues. se would ask me for money she would go to her bfs every weekend which was 45min away..My husband just gave her 160.00 one day and two days later she asked us for me money..My husband looked at me and said we have to pay our electric and water bill first, he was going to finish his sentence by saying we can give you some money for gas but she replied well @#!# and walked away...After that day she seemed more angry, and she accused me of throwing her pics of her and her bf in the trash when she was at work! And that she didnt want to live here with me..WEll she said it differently to me of course cussed me out and got her clothes and left..I havent seen her since then and that was about a week ago. Why in the world would she accuse me of throwing her stuff away, and I called her and she said she doesnt want to be around me or talk to me, that she will talk to only my husband! She came back the other day to get the rest of her clothes and certain things, but she left behind the pic i bought her for Christmas and my baby pic when i was a new born..I'm not understanding what is going on Please help with any advice...Thanks!!