That those of us who got our guy wouldn't be so quick to celebrate. That we would empathize with those who didn't get their girl or who simply didn't like our guy. It's a horrible feeling. I remember it well in 2012. A true man or woman of God should have a cup that is full to the brim with understanding and empathy for our fellow man. This is opportunity to show humility grace and compassion and to simply listen...to put on someone else's shoes.