Hi my Friend. I was going to PM you as its been so long since I've seen your name on site.
I really am truly sorry to learn of the plight of your dearly-held folk &, you know, that my prayers & thoughts are with everyone.
Don't mean for it to sound like platitudes but please try not to worry too much as, from personal experience, I know the effect stress can have on someone.
Scream @ me if you want but my Consultant gave me some shonky advice once when she told me, rightly, that our minds are very fertile & inventive machines! It's almost their job to imagine things that don't exist.
Our liver, kidneys & other bits of plumbing in that area are also, by nature, very tough & resilient things, well capable of handling whatever gets chucked at them over time. And the same mindset is an extremely defensive mechanism, well able to convince the other bits that they can fight off any invader.
And at the end of the day you & yours know that folk are thinking of you & are with you - + if you think there's anything I can do for yous, despite that big lump of water between us, you know where I am.
Slainte & Nar lagai Dia do lamh!
J+