I think what cabbage is trying to do is seek some one to help build her up...
And share her burdens, so she will not carry anger...
We should try to focus on what is in our future not so much our past...
unless you have lived in abuse, it is hard to understand the process of working
it out.
Ephesians 4:2
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Romans 15:5,6 & 7
5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, 6 so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
7 Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.
Gal 6:1,2 and 3
Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.
Share each other's burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.
If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important.
2 cor 4:18
So we don't look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.
