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Is there anyone here who has never had a serious relationship?

Does it make it strange that I have never been in one? Only ever been alone and I look at others and wonder how they do it?

I guess I am just waiting for the right person to come along and God hasn't yet allowed that to happen.

Any thoughts?
 
NathanBmajor7 said:
Is there anyone here who has never had a serious relationship?

Does it make it strange that I have never been in one? Only ever been alone and I look at others and wonder how they do it?

I guess I am just waiting for the right person to come along and God hasn't yet allowed that to happen.

Any thoughts?
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Yes. I haven't. Somewhat intimate but not serious (because it's a hard knock life, long story).

I can relate to you there, bud. Tough to deal with.
 
I've been married twice, but have never been even remotely close to being "in love". Does that count? I somehow tolerated both of my wives until they got the cheating bug. Does that count?
 
I've never so much as been on a date before. Not that I'm against the idea, I just never have bothered looking for a woman.

"But Isaac, don't you want to get married someday?"

No, because I don't know a woman I want to marry. If I happen to meet a lady, we hit it off, start seeing each other and fall in love, then my answer will change and I will want to get married. But I can't see going out and looking for a woman just for the sake of not being alone.
 
Nice chord in your nick, by the way, Bmaj7. Useful at the end of a chorus when you want to lead into the bridge.
 
NathanBmajor7 said:
Is there anyone here who has never had a serious relationship?

Does it make it strange that I have never been in one? Only ever been alone and I look at others and wonder how they do it?

I guess I am just waiting for the right person to come along and God hasn't yet allowed that to happen.

Any thoughts?
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It is more strange to the ladies hahaha I admit meeting men is hard if you are in your late 30's,40's or 50's All the good one's are taken already :D But anyways you are still young my friend wear always that confidence that in God's time you will definitely find the one :) If not then I will give you one of my two cats(just kidding) I have no cats... I was thinking maybe it is time to adopt one already :D I will be 40 in two years time.
 
NathanBmajor7 said:
Is there anyone here who has never had a serious relationship?

Does it make it strange that I have never been in one? Only ever been alone and I look at others and wonder how they do it?

I guess I am just waiting for the right person to come along and God hasn't yet allowed that to happen.

Any thoughts?
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Don't sweat it , life is short anyway. Before you know you're dead bud. So live the best you can, and keep your mind on the things not of this Earth, marriage, kids, house, all that jazz is good . Some people are just not destined for that little script , kinda like me. Its cool though man, heaven is the ultimate goal man. Keep your eye on the prize. Who knows, maybe someone will come along, up to God though. Keep your head up bro.
 
NathanBmajor7 said:
Is there anyone here who has never had a serious relationship?

Does it make it strange that I have never been in one? Only ever been alone and I look at others and wonder how they do it?

I guess I am just waiting for the right person to come along and God hasn't yet allowed that to happen.

Any thoughts?
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A relationship is something you choose to pursue, it doesn't generally just come along. Maybe you just haven't met someone that you like? Some people are too fussy and it prevents them from developing a relationship. Try not to be reclusive, engage and get to know some ladies..
 
Sometimes it's just taking a chance....

I was on a business trip for two weeks in Washington DC area and I was with a group of ladies from the same company getting trained for the mortgage company we would soon be opening and working at in Florida...

I made a goal to meet 7 men and my rules were to say hi and get their name having a brief conversation that was it no expectations just get out of my shell and talk to 7 guys. I did and on number 6 or 7 he was also on a business trip and staying at the same hotel and asked me to go to dinner and we had a nice time when we weren't in our training sessions.

We even went canoeing on the Potomac river one weekend day and when the business trip was over he even came once to visit me back in Florida. He lived over in New Orleans and the relationship fizzled out after a while but we had a nice time for a little while and ended mutually.

My point is sometimes you have to open yourself up and move out of your comfort zone to even meet people - there are still a lot of good people out there you just have to pray about it and take a chance once in a while.
 
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