Never try to sort out an error with other error!!! (Part 2).
Always that we have a problem, we ought to seek, in Christ and His word, the solution, even if this looks very hard or even impossible.
Let’s analyze the first case quoted.
When a couple has problems in their marriage, firstly, may them pray; next, they must go over the Holy Scripture in order to verify if they are fulfilling all the purport of the Creator for their marriage or if they are adulterating His plans. After all, how is it feasible that the marriage can be successful if man and woman cope with each other as lovers instead of husband and wife?
We can’t follow the advices of the world (see Psalms 1:1,2). The Holy Scripture is clear:
“” (Heb 13:4)
I already saw some pastors saying that, between husband and wife, among four walls, is worth everything. Now, think: if husband and wife prostitute with each other, instead of having sexual intercourse with understanding (1Peter 3:7), how can they hope that their marriage can prosper? How can we reach the heaven following the paths of Ha-Satan toward the hell?
I know that the way of the wicked is seducer, the sin tastes sweet while it is being practiced. Notwithstanding, its end is bitter as absinth (Prov 5:4) and its wage is the death (Rom 6:23).
So, if the home is going wrong, can you be sure: this couple is adulterating Jesus’ plans for their life. The correct is to seek in Jesus to make amends with the Creator first. One of the mistakes that the couple make is try to make up with each other trusting only in the good will of both to fix their relationship.
No! The problem in the marriage is, first of all, a problem in the relationship with the Creator on the part of the husband, the wife and both of them. Even if it was allowed the divorce, this wouldn’t sort out the problem. On the contrary: this only would exacerbate the problem inasmuch as, with both hearts hurt, the only thing they would be able to convey to their new partner would be what they have in abundance in their heart (Mat 12:34): traumas, deceptions, frustrations.
However, considering that divorce is abominable before the Creator (Mal 2:15,16), the only thing that the divorce candidate adds in his life is one more sin, in addition to all the problems mentioned above.
Furthermore, what kind of person the divorced think on finding outside the legitimate marriage? If the divorced couldn’t be grateful and faithful to the Creator for the spouse that He made specially for them, with whom they hope to get along? If the couple couldn’t stay together with humbleness and patience while Jesus used both to occlude the breach that there were each other’s heart, how can they think that they will be able to stand close someone that doesn’t have anything to do with them?
So, have a good day sticking up for the principles of the Holy Scripture in your marriage. Follow Jesus’ advices and all the thorns existents in you and in your spouse will be removed, remaining only the perfume and beauty of the roses (see 2Cor 2:14-16).
Always that we have a problem, we ought to seek, in Christ and His word, the solution, even if this looks very hard or even impossible.
Let’s analyze the first case quoted.
When a couple has problems in their marriage, firstly, may them pray; next, they must go over the Holy Scripture in order to verify if they are fulfilling all the purport of the Creator for their marriage or if they are adulterating His plans. After all, how is it feasible that the marriage can be successful if man and woman cope with each other as lovers instead of husband and wife?
We can’t follow the advices of the world (see Psalms 1:1,2). The Holy Scripture is clear:
“” (Heb 13:4)
I already saw some pastors saying that, between husband and wife, among four walls, is worth everything. Now, think: if husband and wife prostitute with each other, instead of having sexual intercourse with understanding (1Peter 3:7), how can they hope that their marriage can prosper? How can we reach the heaven following the paths of Ha-Satan toward the hell?
I know that the way of the wicked is seducer, the sin tastes sweet while it is being practiced. Notwithstanding, its end is bitter as absinth (Prov 5:4) and its wage is the death (Rom 6:23).
So, if the home is going wrong, can you be sure: this couple is adulterating Jesus’ plans for their life. The correct is to seek in Jesus to make amends with the Creator first. One of the mistakes that the couple make is try to make up with each other trusting only in the good will of both to fix their relationship.
No! The problem in the marriage is, first of all, a problem in the relationship with the Creator on the part of the husband, the wife and both of them. Even if it was allowed the divorce, this wouldn’t sort out the problem. On the contrary: this only would exacerbate the problem inasmuch as, with both hearts hurt, the only thing they would be able to convey to their new partner would be what they have in abundance in their heart (Mat 12:34): traumas, deceptions, frustrations.
However, considering that divorce is abominable before the Creator (Mal 2:15,16), the only thing that the divorce candidate adds in his life is one more sin, in addition to all the problems mentioned above.
Furthermore, what kind of person the divorced think on finding outside the legitimate marriage? If the divorced couldn’t be grateful and faithful to the Creator for the spouse that He made specially for them, with whom they hope to get along? If the couple couldn’t stay together with humbleness and patience while Jesus used both to occlude the breach that there were each other’s heart, how can they think that they will be able to stand close someone that doesn’t have anything to do with them?
So, have a good day sticking up for the principles of the Holy Scripture in your marriage. Follow Jesus’ advices and all the thorns existents in you and in your spouse will be removed, remaining only the perfume and beauty of the roses (see 2Cor 2:14-16).